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100

You're telling a story when another child interrupts.

  • "Can I finish what I was saying?"
  • Raise your hand or wait for a pause, then continue.
  • If it keeps happening, tell the teacher privately.
100

You were playing with your favourite toy. You went to the bathroom and when you came back, your brother was playing with it.

  • "I wasn't finished playing with it. Can I have it back when you're done?"
  • "Can we take turns?"
  • Ask a parent to help if you can't work it out together.
200

Your Friend Says, "If You Don't Play My Game, I'm Not Your Friend."

  • "Friends don't have to agree all the time."
  • "I'm happy to play later, but not right now."
  • "Walk away and play with someone else."
200

You were watching your favourite show. Your sister grabs the remote and changes the channel.

  • "I was still watching that."
  • "Can we finish this episode and then you can choose?"
  • Take turns choosing shows.
300

Someone Wants Your Snack and they keep asking after you've already said no.

  • "No thanks, I'd like to keep it."
  • "I've already answered."
  • Change the subject or walk away.
300

You're halfway through building something in Minecraft when Mum says it's time to stop.

  • "Can I have two more minutes to save my game?"
  • "Can I finish this one thing before I turn it off?"
  • Accept Mum's answer if she says no.
400

You're playing soccer. Another child keeps changing the rules whenever they're losing.

  •  "I think we forgot the rules."
  • "Should we check the rules together?"
  • "Let's start that round again."
400

Your Sister Keeps Borrowing Your Things without asking 

  • "Please ask before you use my things."
  • Decide which things you're happy to share.
  • Ask a parent to help make a family rule.
500

During soccer, another child says, "You're terrible at soccer. Don't be on my team."


  • "That hurt my feelings."
  • "Everyone is still learning."
  • Continue playing and do your best.
  • Tell a teacher if the comments continue.
500

Mum Is Busy Helping Your Sibling. You need help too, but Mum is helping your sister with homework.

  • Wait your turn.
  • Say, "Can you help me when you're finished?"
  • Start what you can on your own.