What is the difference between nurturing and neglect?
Nurturing- Looking after the child and devoting attention; helping the kid grow and learn
Neglect- Ignoring the child, leaving them in dangerous situations; potential abuse and not participating in helping the kid grow or learn
What is the most effective type of parenting?
Authoritative / Gentle Parenting
they should take a step back and listen to how the child feels.
What is gentle parenting?
the parent will create a positive environment and relationship for their kid while still having rules.
When a teen is experiencing a mood swing / wave of emotions, its best for the parent to do what?
Stay calm so the child will have a chance for the emotions to pass
What analogy was used for a neglected child's lifespan?
Goldfish in a dirty vs clean tank
What is a common quote said by authoritarian parents?
> My house, my rules
Name 1 indicator of strict parenting
Deprives children of the opportunity to learn self-discipline
All control and decisions come from the parent
Nagging
Praising outcome over effort
Long list of rules
Having a zero-tolerance policy
Gentle parenting is rooted to which type of parenting?
Authoritative
Lucy Androski claims that a child should get a phone depending on their..
environment
Up to 20
What is the difference between uninvolved and permissive parenting?
Uninvolved: provides no interest or nurturing towards the child
Permissive: lets their children discover things on their own, following the guidelines of “kids will be kids” and does not enforce rules whatsoever
Early curfew and limited time with friends
Which of these was NOT a way I listed to increase a child's abilities?
- Teaching Empathy
- Setting firm rules
- Keeping sports fun
- Allowing failure
Setting firm rules
Dont set timelines for kids if...
you can't follow them too.
What are the four types of neglect?
Physical
Medical
Educational
Emotional
Effective parenting is the key result to _____ ___________
Brain development
3 disadvantages of strict parenting
Rebellion
Communication Problems
Lying and having secrets
Anger prone
Sneakiness
Allowing failure is important because..
It lets them learn life lessons and gives room for improvement
Why are teens so 'emotional'?
The limbic brain structure, which controls your emotions, is slower to developer than the logical system, leading to more intense emotions.
What are the possible outcomes of a faulty stress response system?
hypervigilance, violence, and re-victimization.
Name the 4 types of parenting and what each one is
Authoritarian- focuses on obedience and punishment over discipline
Authoritative- parent will create a positive environment and relationship for their kid while still having rule
Permissive- follows the guidelines of “kids will be kids” and does not enforce rules whatsoever
Uninvolved- the parent provides no interest or nurturing towards the child
3 advantages of strict parenting
Academic Achievement
Confidence
Self-Control
Independence
Responsibility
Gentle parenting increases what set of skills in a child?
Independence
Give a summary of the video
13 year old Lucy Androski claims that as a teen's brain develops, it is best to understand how their brain is working and what they need. This ranges from panic attacks, to screen time/technology, and mood swings.