Encouraging Cooperation
What is the formula for giving a good direction?
What is:
"(Name), do ________ (Task) now, please"
When using the token system, how many positive behaviors do we want our children to display?
1-3
Give an example on how to disengage mentally
what is:
How long do you wait for child to achknowledge the good direction?
10 seconds
Give an example of a tokens that can be used
What is:
Scooby loops
stickers
coins
fake money (bucks)
Give an example on how to disengage physically
what is:
Name a feature of a good direction
What is:
Get child's attention
Make a statement
Say what to do
Clear, short, simle
Stay calm
Be pleasant
No discussion
Give one at a time
Act like you expect cooperation
True or false
can you take away token if child decides not to follow directions anymore
False
How would you know when to use a deep breathing excerise?
What is:
When you want to disengage from negative energy/enviroment/exchange
Name a feature of a bad direction
What is:
Drive by
Too many words
Nag/screamer
Vague
Hostile
Long distance
threat
Begging
Stop/dont
Give an example of incentives
Food treats
parent time
special priveldges at no cost
special privdleges may cost money
Name two thing your child can do to regulate their emotions?
What is:
deep breathing
calming voice
allow time to sit quietly/sitting with your child
etc
How to change this bad direction to a good direction
How many times do I have to tell you to make your bed Jesse?!
What is:
Jesse, make your bed now, please.
Give an example of a goal/positive behavior that you would want your child to display
What is:
Following directions
following routines
appropiate behavior in public spaces
taking turns
listening without interuppting
Why is it important to actively listen your child or others?
What is:
It helps you to calm down, think, process, regulate emotions, and shows respect and that you care about the situation. Also it shows that you want to help and support.