True or False
True or false a relationship is considered healthy when one person threatens to harm themselves if the relationship ends.
False. If this happens go to a trusted adult.
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Is it abuse if a boyfriend or girlfriend to hit, slap, or cause harm to their partner in a forceful and harmful manner
Yes
It is not okay for anyone to physically harm you in any situation. Do not believe that you deserved the abuse because you did "so and so"
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A healthy relationship is two whole people with separate lives coming together to share their lives. Not to blend into one life. True or False?
True.
Opposite is Codependency and lack of boundaries
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Is being able to speak your mind in a relationship a sign of a healthy or unhealthy relationship?
Healthy
Relationships thrive when couples can express themselves freely and honestly. That means no topic is off-limits, and you both feel heard.
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Changing yourself to please someone else or to get someone to want to date you is healthy. True or False?
False. Being yourself in a relationship is healthy- you will feel comfortable around the person you’re dating. Changing yourself to please someone else won’t work in the long run and can frustrate your friends and family, so it’s important to be yourself.
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True or False it is okay for you to be afraid of the person you share a relationship with
False
In quality relationships you should not be fearful of the other person or worried about your own safety. Seek help if you are scared.
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Is any form of unwanted sexual talk is considered sexual harassment?
Yes
The key word is unwanted. If the sexual talk is unwanted then it would be considered sexual harassment.
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Healthy relationships require trust. Without trust a healthy relationship is not possible. True or False
True
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You think the other person is perfect and you put them on a pedestal. This is a sign of a healthy or unhealthy relationship?
Unhealthy
Nobody is perfect. Everyone is human and has some flaws. Putting your partner on a pedestal and thinking they are perfect and can do no wrong will only lead to disappointment and unrealistic expectations.
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Sometimes I feel unsafe and scared in my relationship but not all the time is this healthy?
No,
Feeling safe: if you feel threatened in any way, you’re not in a healthy relationship. Feeling safe is both emotional and physical. It’s important to know that your partner won’t try to hurt your feelings or your body.
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True or False
It is okay to be forced into a sexual activity against your will because you are in love- or the other person wants you to prove your love- " if you really loved me you would.."
False
This is not love but manipulation. If someone truly loves you they will respect your boundaries and respect you when you say no
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Is it abusive if one person in the relationship makes all the decisions?
Yes,
Relationship abuse is a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another person through fear, intimidation, and power. It often includes the threat or use or violence. Abuse occurs when one person believes that he or she is entitled to control another.
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False. A healthy relationship consist of respect for privacy and space. You don’t have to be with your partner 24/7.
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You find yourself showing more respect and kindness to strangers than your partner.
Unhealthy- Nothing is more important than treating the person you love with care, consideration, empathy, and appreciation.
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I always have to text my boyfriend or my friends first. I always have to initiate hanging out together or going on dates. It takes them forever to respond back to me and often all we talk about is them. They never ask about me or how I am. Is this healthy?
No
Equality: equality keeps relationships safe and fair. For example, being equal in a relationship means sharing the power, not bossing each other around. Equality can also mean sharing the effort. If you text or call your partner often, but they don’t seem to have time for you, your relationship may be unequal.
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True or False
It is okay for one person in the relationship to isolate the other person in the relationship from all their friends and family
False:
This occurs in many abusive relationships. When you are isolated you are less likely to leave a abusive relationship because you have no where else to go.
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Is this abuse?
Arguments are occur in all relationship at some point. When arguing you avoid insulting your partner, try to be fair, and stick to the topic/problem at hand.
No,
This is the correct way you should go about arguing in this way.
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A healthy relationship has open communication: You and your partner can share your feelings, even when you don’t agree, in a way that makes the other person feel safe, heard, and not judged.
True
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Your relationship is your safe place. Is this a healthy or unhealthy sign in a relationship.
Healthy
Your relationship should be a safety net—a stable place to come home to at the end of the day. That doesn’t mean you don’t fight—it just means that when things are hard you know your partner has your back.
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My boyfriend says he loves me often but does not show it. His words say one thing but his actions says another. Does he care?
Healthy relationships have Support: support is about feeling cared for and respected. In healthy relationships, people listen to each other, help out with problems and show support by attending important events.
If your boyfriend says everything right but does not show any support or make you feel that way he probably does not care that much about you or is not making you a priority/making time for you
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True or False
In a dating relationship you should be supportive or your partner wanting to pursue new hobbies and trying to make new friends.
True
This is a sign of a healthy relationship
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Abuse can look like any of these
intimidation
verbal attacks
Isolation
Minimizing, denying, blaming
Using loved ones
Abusing authority or spiritual abuse
Economic Control
Threats/Coercion
True
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True.
Unhealthy expectations: thinking once you get in a relationship your whole life will be better and you will finally be happy
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Both partners are honest. This is a sign of a healthy or unhealthy relationship?
Healthy.
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It’s healthy to argue from time to time. It’s a problem if you’re fighting all of the time or if you say cruel things. It’s important to remember that physical fighting (punching, hitting, etc.) is never OK.True or False?
True
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