Understanding
Consent
Consent
True or false: Consent given once applies every time after.
False — consent must be given every time and can be withdrawn at any moment.
What’s one sign someone is actively listening to you?
Making eye contact, nodding, reflecting back what you said, asking thoughtful questions.
True or false: In a healthy relationship, both people should be allowed to have friendships outside the relationship.
True — healthy relationships support independence and trust.
What is a personal boundary? (Without using the word boundary in the definition)
A limit you set about what you are comfortable with in terms of touch, conversation, space, or behavior.
Your friend is jokingly pushing you to share something personal you don’t want to share. What’s a healthy response?
Assertively say, “I’m not ready to share that,” or set a clear boundary.
Can consent be given if someone is under the influence of drugs or alcohol?
No — a person cannot legally or meaningfully consent if they’re impaired.
What’s the difference between passive, aggressive, and assertive communication?
Passive = avoids conflict, aggressive = attacks/blames, assertive = clear and respectful.
Why can jealousy sometimes be harmful in a relationship?
It can lead to controlling behavior, insecurity, and lack of trust.
Why is it important to respect someone’s “no” even if you don’t understand it?
Because their comfort and autonomy matter, even if you don’t share or understand their reasons.
Someone gives you a compliment that makes you uncomfortable. What could you do?
Tell them directly, change the subject, or express that it made you uncomfortable.
What does it mean when we say “consent must be enthusiastic”?
It means the person is excited and truly wants to say yes — not pressured or unsure.
What does “I-statement” communication look like?
Expressing your feelings and needs without blaming, e.g., “I feel upset when you cancel plans without telling me.”
Name one quality of a healthy relationship.
Trust, respect, good communication, support, equality.
How can someone communicate a boundary without hurting feelings?
By being respectful and clear, using “I” statements, and explaining their needs calmly.
You notice a friend is in a relationship where their partner always checks their phone and limits who they can talk to. Why is this concerning?
It’s a sign of controlling, unhealthy behavior and lack of trust.
What does “nonverbal consent” mean, and why can it be tricky?
It refers to body language or signals instead of words; it’s tricky because it can be misread, so clear verbal communication is best.
How can tone of voice affect a conversation, even if the words are fine?
Tone can change the meaning (e.g., sarcastic, harsh, dismissive) and can lead to misunderstandings or hurt feelings.
Name one warning sign of an unhealthy relationship.
Control, jealousy, constant criticism, isolation, disrespect.
What should you do if someone repeatedly ignores your boundaries?
Reassert your boundary firmly and, if needed, reduce contact or seek help from a trusted adult or authority.
You like someone but aren’t sure if they like you back. What’s the best approach?
Communicate openly and respectfully; don’t assume or pressure them.
Why is it important to get affirmative consent even in a long-term relationship?
Because every interaction deserves mutual respect and agreement, no matter the history or relationship length.
Why is active listening more powerful than just waiting for your turn to talk?
Because it shows respect, builds trust, and helps truly understand the other person’s needs.
How can someone confuse control with “love” in an unhealthy relationship?
They might think being controlled means someone cares deeply, but control is about power, not love.
Why is it important to know and respect your own boundaries before entering a relationship?
So you can communicate them clearly, protect your well-being, and build a relationship based on mutual respect.
You set a boundary, but someone says you’re “being too sensitive.” What should you remember?
Your feelings and boundaries are valid; dismissing them is a red flag, not your fault.