Codependence
Repairing Relationships
Serenity Prayer
Five Common Challenges in recovery
Guilt and Shame
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Define Codependence

What is an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner.

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People we can forgive

Who are ourselves, friends, family, past partners.

100

First line of serenity prayer

What is "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change."

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1st common challenge

What are Friends and associates who use. 

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Guilt is...

What is Guilt (Behavioral): Focuses on specific actions, often prompting actions to make amends (e.g., "I feel guilty for lying to my friend" or "I feel bad for raising my voice"). It is considered productive and aligned with personal values. 

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One type of codependent behavior

What is rescuer or controller or enabler or people pleaser. 

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What it is called in 12 steps

What is "making amends."
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Second line of serenity prayer

What is the courage to change the things I can.

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2nd common challenge in recovery

What is Anger, irritability. 

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Shame is...

What is 

Shame (Identity): Focuses on the self, leading to secrecy and hiding (e.g., "I am a bad person for failing" or feeling defective). It is associated with low self-esteem and is viewed as destructive rather than helpful.

 

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Characteristic of codependent person 

What is Struggling with Control. Difficulty Saying “No” Fear of Abandonment or Rejection. Overly Invested in the Happiness of Others. Low Self Esteem and Poor Self Image. 

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Responses people might have when we are attempting to make amends. 

What are accepting, unaccepting, willing, unwilling, anger, sadness, joy, reconnection, surprise, asking for forgiveness in return.

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Third line of serenity prayer

what is "and the wisdom to know the difference."

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3rd common challenge

What are Substances in the home 

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Which can be useful Guilt or Shame

What is Guilt

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Relationships that can be codependent

What are friendships, families, and romantic partnerships.

400

Who benefits from making amends?

Who are ourselves and others. 

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What do we say after the serenity prayer?

What is "keep coming back, it works if you work it, because you're worth it."
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4th common challenge in recovery

What are Boredom, loneliness. 

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Which can be harmful guilt or shame

What is shame

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Reasons people may become codependent

What is dysfunctional Childhood Dynamics, parent modeling, neglect and trauma. 

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How do you repair relationships?

What include acknowledging problems without blame, active listening, validating each other's feelings, and professional counseling. 

500

What do we say before the serenity prayer?

What is, "let's take a moment of silence for the addict still struggling and the children caught in the crossfire." 

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5th common challenge in recovery

What are Special occasions.

500
How shame can impact recovery

What is 

  • Shame Feeds Relapse: Intense shame can feel so unbearable that it pushes you to use substances or harmful behaviors again to numb the feeling.