Conversations
What are the 3 B's
Boys, Booze, and Bible
Give an example of what to say to PNM when you are getting bumped
[PNM name], this is my sister [name], me and [PNM] were just talking about [blank]! [PNM] I hope you have an amazing rest of you day!
How long do we talk to each PNM during Zoom round?
around 10 minutes
When was the last year Zeta won Homecoming?
2023
Who is our General Advisors?
Pam Davis and Kaitlyn Kirksey
What body language do we use while talking to a PNM?
hint: there are 5
Smile, open body posture, eye contact, lean in, and head nod
Which is considered Bid Promising?
A) You remind me so much of my little!
B) I can't wait for you to meet more girls in the chapter!
C) I hope you have an amazing rest of your week!
D) I really loved our conversation today!
B
Even if you're just implying she'll meet the girl who bumps you, to Panhellenic or the PNM, this could imply her coming back tomorrow to meet more girls.
Which rounds have the most bumps? How many do they have?
Zoom and Philanthropy have 3 bumps
What was our VR 2025 theme?
A Farmers Tale
Which team member is a twin?
Chloe
How do you pivot a conversation if a PNM brings up something we aren't supposed to talk about
Answer the question you wish they asked, then ask them another question
How can you reply to a PNM who has a connection to our Philanthropy if you don't have a personal connection yourself?
"Even though I haven’t experienced it firsthand, seeing how it’s touched the lives of girls I love makes it so important to me”
Which round are we focusing on vulnerability and deep conversations?
Sisterhood round
What food was served at every event last semester?
Cookie Cake!!!
Which is the best question to ask during Philanthropy round?
A) Is there a cause or issue that you're really passionate about?
B) Did you play sports in high school?
C) Do you know what your schedule looks like this semester?
D) Was your life traumatic?
A
B and C are good to ask during Zoom round or as back up if PNM is dry.
What should you avoid doing during a conversation?
A) Telling her a story about living in house
B) Leaning in slightly
C) Have majority of the conversation be about Zeta
D) Asking her about her values
C
If a PNM is asking genuine questions about Zeta the whole time, that is fine! But we don't want to overkill Zeta ourselves!
What song do we play as we are inviting PNM's into our preference ceremony?
Instrumental version of a thousand years by Christina Perri
Name all 9 of our nine key values
Name a red flag and a green flag to look out for during Sisterhood round
Red flag- not engaged, surface-level questions, etc
Green flag- Excited about involvement, could see her finding friends, etc
A PNM that you love says she is going to drop out of Recruitment after this round, how to you reply?
Say something empathetic like "I'm really glad you shared that with me. I understand that recruitment can be a lot, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. . ."
How much Money did we raise for our Philanthropy last semester?
$I’dk yet
What is Laurels favorite Coffee place and her order
7Brew- hot Blondie