Flags with Others
Flags with Self
Coping Skills
Key Points
Misc.
100

Makes you feel unsafe and scared sometimes

Red Flag

100

Too Much Free Time

Red Flag

100

What category are the 5 senses, Picking a color in the room and holding ice a part of? 

Grounding

100

What type of message are red flags?

Messages of Distress

100

When is relapse most like to occur?  

90 days after abstinence 

200

Willing to talk and work through problems

Green Flag

200

Taking care of my body

Green Flag

200

Name one type of coping for becoming angry with another person.

Taking a time out, Communication about anger, I feel statements 

200

What does "Budding" or "B.U.D" stand for?

Building Up to Drinking or Building Up to Danger 

200

What can you say to yourself when mild danger is happening? 

Validate 

300

Trusts and doesn't get jealous easily

Green Flag

300

Isolation

Red Flag

300

What is a coping skill that includes others? 

Safety Plan

300

What do we need to listen to (internally) before things escalate? 

Listen to "whispers" before they become "screams"

300

What emotions are likely to come up after unhealthy coping? 

Shame/Guilt/Embarrassment/Anger/Sadness etc.

400

Getting real jealous when you talk to other people

Red Flag

400

Cancelling Treatment Sessions

Red Flag

400

Give an example of a situation where you used healthy coping when you normally would have use unhealthy coping

....

400

What happens to our behaviors as danger increases?

Acting Out increases rather than talking

400

What is one way of checking in with yourself to notice if danger is escalating? (hint: not using thoughts) 

Check in with changes in your body

500

Supports your hobbies, dreams, and goals

Green Flag

500

Fighting PTSD symptoms

Green Flag

500
Give an example of an I Statement

I feel (emotion) when (situation) because (why you feel emotion) so (suggestion for present/future moment)

500

What are the two types of "spiraling"? Define both. 

Spiraling can be both positive and negative. A "downward" spiral occurs when symptoms start to pick up speed and get worse rapidly. "upward" spiral occurs when recovery efforts are so persistent that good things begin to happen. 

500

Why might it be helpful to develop a safety plan in advanced?

Just like a sports event: practices prepares you for the game