Rules of Refinement
Regency Slang
Scandals & Secrets
A Lady's Wardrobe
Love & Courtship
100

A lady at a ball kept track of her dance partners using this small, handwritten accessory.

Dance card

100

A very fashionable gentleman, obsessed with his clothing and appearance.

Dandy

100

Regency society loved gossip and scandalous news was spread via this widely-read paper.

A scandal sheet

100

This lightweight white fabric was most commonly used for Regency gowns.

Muslin

100

Before speaking to a gentlemen, this must be made.

A proper introduction

200

This was considered improper for an unmarried woman to do this with a man in public.

Premarital eye contact, kissing, holding hands, breathing too closely

200

A person who was "rattled" was feeling this

Nervous or flustered

200

This famous author wrote about love and society but published her book anonymously.

Jane Austen

200

Instead of carrying a purse, a Regency lady kept small items in this.

A reticule

200

This tiny, scented token was often exchanged between lovers.

A lock of hair or handkerchief

300

A gentleman who wanted to call on a lady left this at her home.

A calling card

300

If someone was called a "peagoose", they were being insulted for being this.

A fool or silly person (now "a silly goose")

300

This popular social event was notorious for secret rendezvous, gambling, and risque behavior.

Masquerade balls

300

A high-society lady would wear these long, elegant accessories to formal events.

Gloves

300

This was the typical backdrop for for young lovers to find each other.

A ball

400

If a lady refused a dance with a gentleman, she was expected to do this for the rest of the evening.

Sit out all other dances

400

If a someone was "foxed" at a party, they had done this.

Had too much to drink

400

This infamously short French military leader left his wife for a younger woman

Napoleon Bonaparte

400

This common household item was often repurposed into a fashionable accessory, sometimes used to hide their faces flirtatiously.

A handkerchief

400

During courtship, young women were expected to wholly refrain engaging in this with their intended.

Any type of physical contact

500

A proper Regency lady would never go outside without this essential accessory.

A bonnet or parasol

500

Regency slang for "butterflies in your stomach".

The collywobbles

500

This legendary Regency heartthrob poet was described as "mad, bad, and dangerous to know."

Lord Byron

500
Typically used in cooking, this was also commonly used to keep a lady's hair in place.

Lard (or pomade)

500

This type of marriage was often practiced when love was not the deciding factor.

A marriage of convenience