Why We Form Relationships
What is one reason why we form relationships?
Options: Appearance, Similarity, Complementarity, Reciprocal Attraction, Competence, Disclosure, Proximity, Rewards
Who created the model on relational development?
Mark Knapp
TRUE OR FALSE: All relationships are constantly changing and revolving.
TRUE! As communication theorist Richard Conville describes the constantly changing, evolving nature of relationships as a cycle in which partners move through a series of stages... (Alder and Proctor 296).
What is one of the most important factors in maintaining long-term relationships?
Effective communication.
Why do humans need relationships?
To fulfill social, emotional, and psychological needs, like companionship and support.
TRUE OR FALSE: Similarity doesn't play a key role in initial attraction.
False! Similarity does play a key role in initial attraction.
Ex.) Shared interest (hobbies) or similar values or beliefs (religion)
TRUE OR FALSE: the model of relational stages is best for describing communication between romantic partners.
TRUE! However, it can work to be used in other types of relationships
Ex.) Long-term friendships
TRUE OR FALSE: Trust is not necessary in a close relationship if communication is strong.
False, Trust is essential in close relationships—without it, even strong communication can feel hollow or manipulative.
What term refers to the behaviors or actions that individuals use to keep their relationships healthy and satisfying?
Maintenance behaviors.
How does loneliness influence relationship formation?
Loneliness drives people to seek companionship and emotional connection.
We are more likely to form relationships with people who live or work near us because of this factor...
Proximity, since proximity leads to liking.
Ex.) We're likely to form relationships with a neighbor that lives closer than one further away, due to crossing paths with them the most.
What are the three phases called of the model of relational stages?
1. Coming together
2. Relational Maintenance
3. Coming apart
TRUE OR FALSE: Boundaries are only important in romantic relationships, not friendships.
False, Boundaries are important in all relationships—including friendships, family, and work connections.
What are three common strategies used to maintain relationships?
Positivity, Openness, Assurances, Social Networks, Sharing Tasks
What is the proximity effect in relationship formation?
People are more likely to form relationships with those they are physically close to or frequently interact with.
TRUE OR FALSE: Strong social connections can actually improve your physical health.
True, Studies show strong social ties can boost immune function, lower blood pressure, and improve longevity.
In the model of relational stages, this is the first stage of coming apart where partners begin to distance themselves and avoid topics.
Differentiating
What is one key element that builds trust in a relationship?
Consistent honesty and reliability help build trust.
According to the Investment Model of Commitment, what three factors contribute to relationship commitment?
Satisfaction, alternatives, and investments.
What is a term used when people are attracted to others because of the benefits or rewards they offer us?
Competency or Rewards
The idea that "we like people who like us" reflects this factor in why we form relationships.
Recipocal Attraction, since in early statges of a relationship we are attracted to people who we believe are attracted to us.
It’s the idea that people evaluate relationships based on costs and rewards, and are more likely to stay in relationships where the rewards outweigh the costs.
What is the tension between wanting closeness and independence in relationships called?
Autonomy vs. connection.
TRUE OR FALSE: Relational maintenance only happens in romantic relationships.
FALSE! Relational maintenance happens in all types of relationships from friends, family, coworkers, and so on.
Name the three types of social support.
1. Emotional Support
2. Informational Support
3. Instrumental Support