Definitions
What is it called when someone is manipulating you into doubting your reality?
Gaslighting
It’s okay if your partner compares you to their ex, as long as it’s positive.
False. Comparisons to an ex are rarely healthy.
What is the biggest deal breaker for people in long-distance relationships (LDRs)?
Insufficient communication was cited as a deal breaker by 40.2% of participants in a study on long-distance relationships.
Your partner frequently brings up their ex in conversations.
Yes! This could mean they aren’t over their past relationship.
What are two reasons why people ignore red flags in a relationship?
- Fear of being alone
- Lack of awareness (due to it being their first relationship, etc.)
(Answers may vary)
What is showering someone with gifts, affection, and attention early on to gain their trust called?
Love-bombing
Jealousy is a natural part of any relationship.
True. However, excessive jealousy can be a red flag.
What percentage of abusive relationships involve emotional abuse?
Emotional abuse from a partner occurs in 80% of women and 35.6% of men at some point in their lives.
https://domesticviolenceresearch.org/domestic-violence-facts-and-statistics-at-a-glance/
Your partner gets upset when you spend time with friends without them.
Yes! This could indicate possessiveness or a lack of trust.
What should you do if you notice a red flag early in a relationship?
Gauge the situation and then address it directly and/or seek advice from trusted people
What is it called when someone threatens to harm themself if you leave the relationship?
Emotional blackmail
It is healthy to fight often in a relationship as long as you make up afterward.
False. Frequent conflict can indicate deeper issues.
What is the average number of attempts it takes for someone to leave an abusive relationship?
Your partner encourages you to pursue your hobbies and hang out with friends, even if they’re not involved.
No. This is a green flag since your partner is supporting your interests.
When is domestic violence awareness month (DVAM)?
Every October
What is it called when someone is giving you just enough attention to keep you interested without committing?
Breadcrumbing
It is okay if your partner refuses to meet your friends and family.
False. A disinterest in your social connections can indicate disengagement or control.
What is the most common age range for people to experience their first toxic or abusive relationship?
The most common age range for people to experience their first toxic or abusive relationship is between the ages of 18 and 24. https://www.domesticshelters.org/resources/statistics/demographics-and-domestic-violence
Your partner needs to constantly be with you because you are their entire world.
Yes! This could be a sign of unhealthy dependence.
How can one save a failing relationship?
All partners need to be committed to saving the relationship. Open communication, counseling, and a willingness to address unresolved issues are essential for healing and rebuilding trust.
What is it called when someone is refusing to communicate or shutting down during conflicts?
Stonewalling
A good relationship should never involve disagreements or conflicts.
False. Disagreements are natural; it’s how you handle them that matters.
What percentage of people admit to ignoring early red flags in relationships?
70 percent of people have admitted to ignoring red flags in a past relationship.
https://www.today.com/health/how-spot-relationship-red-flags-t107715
Your partner always insists on splitting the bill evenly, even if they ordered more expensive items.
No, unless it causes tension in the relationship; this could be personal preference.
What’s the difference between jealousy and possessiveness?
Jealousy is a feeling; possessiveness involves controlling actions.