Principles of Dating
My values:
My values need to be respected, 2 people should have close to the same values
Name 2 signs of an abusive relationship?
Jealousy, manipulation, control
Name a way to protect yourself from becoming a victim?
Go out in groups [ 6-8 people]
Do not accept drinks from someone you do not know
Healthy or unhealthy
Manipulation, control, resentment, insecurity, fears?
Unhealthy
What are the 3 C's of healthy communication?
Communication
Compromise
Cooperation
I can change them:
No you cannot change another person, if you want to change them it is a good sign they are not right for you
Name 2 types of dating violence?
Mental abuse
Emotional abuse
Physical abuse
Sexual Abuse
Name 2 tips to prevent drugs being slipped into your drink?
Cover your drink
never leave drink unattended
Buddy system
Always get your drink from a server
Relationship is: flexibile, enjoyable, fun,respectful
Healthy
Yes or No can the opinions of your peers effect the way you react?
Yes
Changing myself:
Do not try to change yourself to meet a anothers persons, part of a good relationship is accepting people for who they are, do not change to be respect thats manipulation
True or False-child abuse and neglect is 15 x greater in homes of domestic violence
True
What precautions can you use to prevent becoming a victim of violence?
Learn self-defense, don't use substances
Don't go out alone,use assertive body language
Be assertive
Relationships with poor communication, is it healthy?
No, it is unhealthy and will remain unhealthy if communication does not improve.
Someone you meet up wiyh occasionally is an:
Acquaintance
Communication:
If the communication is not good between you and your date, then they are not for you. Communication is a big part of a relationship.
What is a pattern of harassing or threatening tactics that causes fear in a victim called?
Stalking
What elsd could you do to keep away from violence?
Avoid going to troubled areas
Think before you act
Make every effort to get away from an explosive situation.
What do you do when you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship?
You either work together to improve it or leave the relationship.
True or False- It takes 3 months to pick up on problem patterns, a partner may have.
True
Head Games:
Stay away from people who like to play head games with you, it's a type of abuse.
Name 2 ways when a person cannot give consent for intimacy?
Too young
Drunk
High
Passed out
Be picky of who you hang around with:
Don't go places with angry people, best not to hang around angry people.
Keep your feelings in check
Have a positive attitude, values and belief system
What is rules, limits, guidelines to follow to keep you safe?
Boundaries
What makes people blind to partners faults when falling in love?
it from chemicals in the brain that are secreted like:
PEA-Phenethylamine, Norepinephrine, Dopamine
Oxytocin,Seratonin