Love Languages
Name one of the five love languages.
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch
What’s a “green flag” in a relationship?
Respect, honesty, supportiveness, open communication, etc.
Is honest communication healthy or unhealthy?
Healthy
Name one type of attachment style.
Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized
What is an example of respectful communication?
Listening without interrupting, using "I" statements, active listening, etc.
What love language involves acts like helping with chores?
Acts of Service
Name a “red flag” related to controlling behavior.
Telling someone who they can talk to or what to wear
When someone ignores you to punish you.
Unhealthy
Which style is typically trusting and comfortable with closeness?
Secure attachment
Name a way to say “no” kindly but firmly.
"No, thank you" or "That doesn’t work for me right now"
Which love language is about giving compliments or affirmation?
Words of Affirmation
Red Flag or Green Flag?
A partner apologizes when they make a mistake.
Green Flag
They take personal time during conflict
Healthy
What style often worries about being abandoned?
Anxious attachment
Why are boundaries important in digital communication?
To protect privacy, reduce pressure, and ensure respect
Your friend always gives you thoughtful gifts, but you feel closest to them when you hang out and talk. What might your love language be?
Quality Time — you feel most connected through spending time together, not gift-giving.
Red Flag or Green Flag?
A partner gives you constant criticism (non-constructive) without apology.
Red Flag
Describe a healthy boundary in relationships.
Respecting personal space, asking before sharing info, saying no, etc.
Which style may avoid emotional closeness?
Avoidant attachment
Scenario: your friend shares something, then asks you to keep a secret—what boundary applies?
Respect for confidentiality and emotional boundary
Why is knowing someone’s love language helpful in a friendship?
It helps you show appreciation in a way that is meaningful to them
Explain the difference between a red flag and a dealbreaker.
Red flag is a warning sign (unhealthy); dealbreaker is a reason to end the relationship (abusive)
Why setting healthy boundaries is important for self-respect?
It shows you value yourself and teaches others how to treat you
How might your childhood contribute to your attachment style?
Caregiver consistency, emotional support, and responsiveness shape attachment behavior
Explain the difference between a boundary and a rule in relationships.
A boundary is personal and internal; a rule is imposed and external