Healthy Relationships
Boundaries and Consen
Communication/Conflict
Texting/SM
Music/Relationships
100

A friend lets you finish speaking before responding

What is listening/respect, concern

100

Before hugging someone ask for this

 What is permission

100

These two words acknowledge someone's help

What is Thank you

100

Before posting a picture of your friend, ask for this

What is permission

100

Your friend likes a song you dislike. Instead of insulting their choice, show this

Respect

200

A friend follows through on promises and tells you the truthW

What is trust

200

Someone says Stop. This is what you should do

What is stop

200

Instead of yelling during an argument, you can ask for one of these to calm down

What is break

200

Your friend has not answered your text. Give them this instead of sending repeated messages. 

What is time. 

200

You and a friend both love the same artist. This gives you something to talked about together

What is shared interest

300

Your friend likes different music. You can disagree without making fun of their taste by showing this

What is respect

300

You agreed to hold hands earlier but no longer want to. You have have the right to do this. 

What is change your mind. 

300

Replace, Youre so annoying, with a respectful statement about needing quiet

I need some quiet right now

300

A screenshot of a private this part of a friendship

What is trust or privacy

300

Your friend wants to talk, but you have headphones on. Ask this question to find out whether they need your attention now. 

What is do you need to talk now?

400

You always help your friend, but they never support you. The friendship may be missing this balance

give and take

400

Someone says If you loved me you send that picture. This is pressure, rather than freely given agreement.

What is manipulation of coercion?

400

A friend says You embarrassed me. Before pretending yourself you can do this to understand their experience

What is listen and ask what hurt them.

400

A group chat starts insulting a classmate. Name one action that avoids joining the harm. 

What is refuse to participate, speak up, leave, or seek help?

400

A song describes jealousy and controlling a partner as signs of love. These lyrics  do not make that behavior healthy. Name the relationship warning sign.

What is controlling behavior

500

Your friend gets an award you wanted. You can congratulate them while also experiencing this uncomfortable feeling

What is jealousy of disappointment. 

500

Someone stays silent when asked for a kiss. Silence does not give you this

Consent or permission

500

Im sorry, but made me do it. Shifts blame. A stronger apology includes these two things

What are taking responsibility and explaining how you will repair the harm

500

Someone sends threatening messages. Instead of arguing back name two protective steps.

What are save the messages and tell a trusted adult?

500

You and a friend disagree about the playlist. Name a solution that  gives both people a say.

What is take turns choosing songs or create a playlist together?