COMMUNICATION
Give one quality of good communications
Active listening
Eye contact
"I" statements
No blaming
Taking turns speaking
Your friend always make you feel like every problem in the relationship if your fault
Unhealthy
TRUE OR FALSE: You should always feel safe with the other person
True
TRUE OR FALSE: Real friends don't have conflicts
False
What is one way that people engage in conflict?
Yelling
Blaming
Not listening
What time does DRP start?
What is 8:30am?
Give two examples of non-verbal communication
Facial expression
Tone of voice
Relaxed posture
Leaning in to listen
Nodding
What are boundaries?
Guidelines to protect yourself from an abusive or unhealthy relationship.
A friendship with a member of the opposite gender in which there is affection but it is not romantic in nature
Platonic relationship
True or False: All friendship are meant to last forever.
False: Some friends come into your life for a season and when it's time to let them go it's good to understand that not all friendships are meant to last forever.
Being aware of the other person's feelings and emotions is called _______________
Empathy
This Dodgers baseball player demonstrated tremendous courage by silencing his critics and changing the world of baseball.
Who is Jackie Robinson?
Share one negative thing about digital/electronic communication
Easy to misinterpret
Created distance between people
Name two things of an unhealthy relationship.
Abuse
Threats
Lack of trust
Jealousy
Inequality
Your relationship with a friends seems to have changed and your are drifting apart. What should you do?
Talk it out
What is valuing someone's thoughts, values, and opinions called.
Respect
What is it called when two people both give in a little in order to settle a conflict?
Compromise
She was the subject of the movie, "And Still I Rise."
Who is Maya Angelou?
What is one way you can make a friend less defensive when talking about a difficult thing?
Using "I" statements
Using a pleasant tone of voice
Allowing the other person to express their point of view
Trying to see the other's point of view
TRUE OR FALSE: Unhealthy relationships usually get better over time
Healthy or Unhealthy Relationship: Both people have equal decision-making power about what to do in your relationship
Healthy
True
What is one way to "cool off" during an argument?
Deep Breaths
Take a break
Use other coping skills
He was a broadcasting journalist who produced and commentated the DVD, "Addiction."
Who is Bill Moyer?
A friend always leaves garbage at your table during group and never cleans it up and you feel disrespected.
Make this into an "I" statement to approach the subject with your friend.
"I feel disrespected when you leave garbage at our table without cleaning it up because it feels like you don't value my space."
Healthy or unhealthy relationship: You feel that you are allowed to say no to things without jeopardizing the relationship
Healthy
Maya Angelou was married three times? What is the occupation of one of her husbands?
She Was Married to a Sailor, an Activist and a Carpenter.
Name two ways to ruin a friendship
Breaking trust
Ignoring the other person's needs
Not accepting the other person for who they/trying to change them
Poor communication
Always ignoring the other person's point of view
Focus on the ______________, not the person.
Problem
This is a language that people used to communicate with each other through telegraph, radio, satellite, or with light.
What is Morse Code?