Healthy or Unhealthy?
S keeps pressuring T to send a photo, even after T says they’re uncomfortable.
T feels anxious and unsure of what to do.
Unhealthy.
M thinks twice before posting photos and avoids sharing anything that could embarrass them later.
Safe
It is ________ to set boundaries so that you do not do anything you're uncomfortable with.
Okay
**TRIPLE JEOPARDY**
Should you meet up with someone you've never met before alone?
No!
What does a healthy relationship look like to you?
A healthy relationship is built on trust, respect, communication, and equality. Both people feel safe being themselves, can express their thoughts and feelings honestly, and support each other’s goals and boundaries. There’s no fear, pressure, or manipulation. A healthy relationship makes both people feel valued, heard, and cared for, even when they disagree.
M tells their friend they’re busy, but the friend sends dozens of texts asking why they’re ignoring them.
M feels overwhelmed and guilty for needing space.
Unhealthy
A blocks someone who sends rude or uncomfortable messages and saves screenshots before reporting.
Safe
How do you set boundaries with people you only know through social media or online games?
Communication
What do you think are the risks and benefits of online dating for teenagers?
Risks: May be a catfish, may be a child predator, you never actually know who you are talking to.
Benefit: Could meet your best friend, significant other, and more people who understand you.
Why is trust important in a healthy relationship?
Helps people feel safe, respected, and confident in the relationship. It is built by being honest, keeping promises, and showing support.
** DOUBLE JEOPARDY **
Taylor’s partner says they just want to spend more time together because they miss them, so they often call or text many times a day.
Unhealthy
**DOUBLE JEOPARDY**
B posts a location check-in every time they visit a new place, making their whereabouts visible to anyone online.
Unsafe
How can you set boundaries in a relationship without hurting the other person's feelings?
Explain your feelings calmly, be honest, and focus on what you need rather than blaming the other person.
How can you tell if someone you meet online is being honest about who they are?
FaceTime, if they stay consistent with their stories, are willing to talk in real time either through phone call or video chat, respectful of your boundaries.
Why is self-respect important in a relationship, and how does it affect the way you treat others?
In a relationship, self-respect helps you set healthy boundaries, make good decisions, and avoid being controlled or disrespected. When you respect yourself, you’re more likely to treat your partner with respect too, creating a relationship that’s based on equality and kindness—not insecurity or control.
K and their best friend had a small argument, but instead of avoiding each other, they talked it out respectfully.
They both apologize and move forward with mutual understanding.
Healthy
Z keeps conversations with strangers going for hours and shares details about their daily routine.
Unsafe
**DOUBLE JEOPARDY**
How can you handle a situation where a friend keeps texting or messaging you constantly, making you uncomfortable?
Boundaries!
Have a conversation with that friend about their behavior and how it is making you feel.
What are some red flags that might suggest an online relationship is unsafe or unhealthy?
The person avoids video calls or refuses to show their face.
They pressure you to share personal photos or information too soon.
They get angry or upset if you don’t respond right away.
They try to isolate you from friends or tell you not to talk to others.
They ask you to keep the relationship a secret.
They seem too perfect, move too fast emotionally, or say “I love you” very early.
They threaten or guilt you if you say no or try to set boundaries.
What are some warning signs of an unhealthy or controlling relationship?
Feeling scared or anxious around the other person, being isolated from friends or family, having your choices criticized, and being disrespected and pressured to do things you are uncomfortable with.
When A says “no” to a hug, their partner immediately respects it and doesn’t push.
They say, “Thank you for being honest with me.”
Healthy
T replies politely to a stranger’s message but doesn’t share any personal details and ends the conversation quickly.
Safe
Can people truly have privacy online, or is digital privacy just an illusion in today’s world?
Nothing online is truly private
What role does peer pressure play in how teens approach online dating or flirting?
Friends or social media trends might make it seem like “everyone’s doing it,” which can lead someone to act before they’re ready or comfortable. This pressure can also push someone to share things (like selfies or private messages) they wouldn't normally send. Recognizing and resisting peer pressure helps teens stay true to their own values and boundaries.
**DOUBLE JEOPARDY**
What are some healthy ways to resolve conflict in a relationship?
Healthy conflict resolution includes calm communication, listening without interrupting, and trying to understand the other person’s point of view. Instead of yelling, blaming, or ignoring the problem, both people should talk honestly and respectfully. Taking a break to cool down, using “I” statements (like “I feel upset when...”), and being willing to compromise are also important tools for resolving conflict in a mature way.