Chapter 10- Skills of Healthy Relationships
A bond or connection you have with other people
Relationship
The basic unit of society, provides a safe and nurturing environment for its members
Family
People of similar age who share similar interests
Peers
Answer yes or no if you think the question is a red flag or not:
Gets jealous if you talk to someone else
Yes, you should be able to talk to anyone you are friends with
Who gets targeted for bullying?
Targets are usually people who are different, in the minority, have few friends, or are the least powerful
Tell me the three communication styles
Passive, Aggressive, and Assertive
A legal decision about who has the right to make decisions affecting the child in a family and who has the responsibility of physically caring for them
Custody
The influence that people your age may have on you
Peer Pressure
Answer yes or no if you think the question is a red flag or not:
Tracks you down when he or she can't find you
Yes, you should have trust and that person shouldn't always need to know what you're doing 24/7
Why do people bully others?
a. Bad mood or temper; expression of anger or sadness
b. Desire to feel or appear “cool” or better than others
c. Prejudice or discomfort with differences in others
d. Desire to get back at or defend yourself from others
e. Pressure from others to go along with negative behavior
Paying attention to what someone is saying and communicating
Active Listening
Any act of violence involving family members
Domestic Violence
Communication strategies that can help you say no when you are urged to take part in behaviors that are unsafe, unhealthy, or that go against your values
Refusal Skills
Answer yes or no if you think the question is a red flag or not:
Proud when you are successful
No, Shows that this person is happy for you
Examples of flirting
Welcomed Attention
Goes both ways
Feel in control
Makes you feel good about yourself
Legal in School
Disagreements between groups of any size, from two people to entire nations.
Interpersonal Conflicts
A temporary arrangement in which a child is placed under the guidance and supervision of a family or an adult who is not related to the child by birth
Foster Care
Exaggerated feelings of passion for another person
Infatuation
Answer yes or no if you think the question is a red flag or not:
Makes you laugh when you're sad
No, Shows that the person is trying to help make you feel better and just wants to be there for you.
Examples of Harassment
Not Wanted
One- Sided
Makes you feel put down or ugly
Makes you feel powerless
Violation of school rules
Respecting the privacy of both parties and keeping details secret
Confidentiality
A person who helps others resolve issues to the satisfaction of both parties
Mediator
A set time at which you must be home at night
Curfew
Answer yes or no if you think the question is a red flag or not:
Asks what you want to do on the weekend
No, Shows that person is interested in what you want also and not making the decision for you
Who determines if it's sexual harassment or flirting?
The target