Asking for Help
Handling Frustration
Getting Attention
Disagreeing Respectfully
Peer Conflict
100

”I can’t do this”

”Can you help me?”

100

“Leave me alone.”

”I need some space”

100

INSTEAD OF…

Interrupting someone

”Excuse me, may I talk to you”

100

“You’re wrong!”

”I see it differently.”

100

“Move”

”Can you please give me some space?”

200

“This is stupid.”

”I’m confused and need help.”

200

“This isn’t fair.”

”Can we talk about this?”

”Can we come up with a better solution that ___?”

200

INSTEAD OF…

Yelling a name repeatedly.

”Can I have your attention?”

200

“That’s dumb”

”I don‘t agree with that idea”

200

“Stop being annoying”

”I don’t like that. Please stop.”

300

“Forget it.”

”Can you explain it another way?”

300

“I’m done.”

”I’m feeling frustrated and need a break.”

300

INSTEAD OF…

Complaining loudly

”Can we talk when you have a minute?”

300

“Whatever”

”I understand your point, but I think…”

300
”I’m not playing anymore”

”I’m upset and need a few minutes.”