Introducing Others
When do you need to introduce two people?
When the two people have not met before.
"Hi, how are you doing?" is an example of which step of the Friendship Five?
1) Go where people are
2) Initiate Conversation
3) Find Common Interests
4) Listen
5) Be patient
Initiate Conversation
What is the acronym for Solving Problems?
IDEA
What is a compromise?
a deal where one or both people give up part of their demand
Which idiom means to think alike and/or be in agreement?
1) Hold your horses
2) On the same page
On the same page
“Hello! I would like you to meet…” is an example of which one of the steps?
-Introduce the two people
-Explain how you know each of them
-State a common interest between them
Introduce the two people
One step of the Friendship Five is to go where people are. Where are some places you can go on campus to "Be where people are"?
Bowling alley, dining hall, clubs, classes
You lose your HawkCard, what do you do?
Go to hawkcard office, ask roommate to let you into dorm building, retrace your steps
What are the three steps for compromising?
Think, Act, Reflect
Complete the idiom:
“Lily had a great morning. She had a huge donut for breakfast and got to work on time. She started her day off...
A) on the right foot
B) feeling blue
On the right foot
Is this a formal or informal introduction?
"Hey! What's up bro? This is my bud from class!"
Informal introduction
One of the steps in the Friendship Five is to listen to the other person. How can you show someone you are listening?
Eye contact, put your phone down, nodding, asking on topic questions about what the other person is saying
You get all the way to his Chemistry class and realize you forgot your goggles. Class starts in 10 minutes and your dorm is about 10 minutes away. What is the best solution?
A) Decide to leave and skip class
B) Go back to your dorm for the goggles and risk being late
C) Ask your professor if he has an extra pair of goggles you can borrow
C) Ask your professor if he has an extra pair of goggles you can borrow
What are two solutions for compromising?
do both, take turns, both give up parts, do something different
Complete the idiom:
“Emily and Katie are best friends. They go everywhere together. They both like to read books and drink coffee. They are like.......
A. Two peas in a pod
B. Feeling blue
Two peas in a pod
"Hey! What's up bro? This is my bud from class!"
With what types of people should you use this introduction with?
Close friends
What are some common interests you may look for when making a new friend? In other words, what things do you enjoy that you hope a new friend enjoys too?
*answer will be unique to each person
For me, I may look for friends that have a common interest of outdoor activities and sports.
If you need help solving a problem, who could you ask?
roommate, helping professional, family, friends
When should you compromise with someone? (i.e. the appropriate time)
Hint: When you agree or when you disagree?
If you and someone else do not agree of something.
Complete the idiom:
Max got his phone stuck behind his desk. His arm was too big to reach the phone and the desk was too heavy to move. He couldn’t call anyone for help. He decided to make a net out of hanger and a shirt. Max was able to get his phone out from behind the desk. Max was...
A) Thinking outside the box
B) Beating around the bush
A) Thinking outside the box
Which of the following are important during introductions? and why?
A) Smile
B) Use a friendly voice
C) Wave or shake hands
D) All of the above
All of the above
Which of the following is an example of being patient when making a new friend?
A) Calling someone you just met 10 times in one day to find out when you can hang out next.
B) Making a plan to hang out next week after class to get lunch and chat.
C) Sending multiple texts in a row asking to meet again the very next day.
B) Making a plan to hang out next week after class to get lunch and chat.
Why is it important to think of multiple solutions to a problem?
One or more solutions may not work so it's better to have extra. Because having more than one solution can help you in solving the problem. Can create pros and cons to find best possible solution.
You and your roommate want to play music in your dorm room. You love country music but your roommate hates it. What do you do?
Think: Do you need to compromise?- yes
Act:
Do both: You could both listen to music with your headphones on, or one could.
Both give up parts: Then you both wouldn’t get to listen to what you want to.
Do something different: Pick a different genre?
What does it mean to think on your feet?
To think on your feet means to think and react quickly, especially having good answers ready