This four-word phrase reminds us that our language can influence how others feel
words have power
Some people say “I don’t care” to hide this emotion.
insecurity or hurt feelings
A good communicator listens just as much as they do this.
talk
This quality helps leaders support others and understand their feelings
empathy
This type of discussion is friendly, relaxed, and used to share thoughts.
a conversation
This can happen when someone hears something differently from how it was meant.
What is misunderstanding or misinterpretation?
Saying “I don’t care” might be used to deflect attention from this.
themselves
This type of speaking considers how words might be heard, not just how they are said.
thoughtful communication
Good leaders communicate clearly and do this before making decisions.
Listen
This is a structured exchange where two sides try to support their ideas with reasons.
Debate
Being careful and thoughtful before speaking helps reduce this common communication problem.
What is a message getting messed up or changed
A person might copy this group just to fit in, even if they don’t mean the words.
friends or peers
When someone repeats a message in their own words to check understanding, it is called this.
showing active listening / understanding
True leaders inspire others by setting this type of example.
A positive example
This happens when emotions take over and people try to “win” instead of understand.
An argument
If a message wouldn’t feel good to hear about yourself, this is what you should NOT do.
What is say it to someone else?
Sometimes people act this way without realizing it can be emotionally painful to others.
not understanding how much it can hurt
Good communicators avoid assuming this about how their message will be understood.
that others know exactly what they mean
This leadership trait means doing what is right even when no one is watching.
Integrity
A debate can stay healthy and respectful only if both sides do this.
Name at least 1 thing you should think about before responding to someone. "Is it ______?"
True, Helpful, Inspiring, Necessary, or Kind.
Saying “I don’t care” might be used to show this feeling, even if they don’t truly have it.
feeling powerful or included
This is what we should check before speaking to prevent misunderstandings
our intention or impact
Leaders who think before they speak are practicing this core communication principle.
being thoughtful and intentional
Conversations to try make connection, debates try to gain clarity, and arguments often try to have this.
Winning or being right