Becoming an Adult
Rites of Challenge or Courage
Religious or Spiritual Rites
School and Education Milestones
Games Learned as You Grow
100

A big birthday party when a girl turns 16.

Sweet 16 (USA)

100

Boys must serve in the army when they are adults.

First Day of Military Service (South Korea)

100

A person is dipped in water to show belief in God

Baptism (Christianity)

100

Children finish primary school and move to lower secondary school.

Thailand – Primary School Graduation

100

Children sit in a circle; one taps heads and someone chases them. Teaches fun and quick thinking.

Duck, Duck, Goose (USA)

200

A girl turns 15 and is celebrated as becoming a young woman.

Quinceañera (Mexico and Latin America)

200

A teen spends time alone in nature to find their purpose.

Vision Quest (Native American tribes)

200

Many Muslim teens begin fasting from sunrise to sunset.

Ramadan Fasting (Islam)

200

Students take a big test to graduate and enter university.

Vietnam – National High School Exam

200

A team game where one player tags others while holding their breath and saying “kabaddi.” Teaches courage and teamwork.

Kabaddi (India)

300

A special party when a girl turns 18.

Debut (Philippines)

300

A boy lives alone in the wilderness to learn survival skills.

Walkabout (Australian Aboriginal people)

300

A sacred thread ceremony when a boy begins religious study.

Upanayana (India, Hinduism)

300

Teens take exams at the end of high school to move on to college or work.

Kenya – Kenya Certificate of Secondary Education (KCSE)

300

A traditional New Year board game using four sticks. Families play to bring good luck.

Yut Nori (South Korea)

400

At age 13, a boy reads from the Torah and becomes responsible for his actions.

Bar Mitzvah (Jewish boys)

400

Boys show their strength by jumping high to become warriors.

Maasai Jumping Dance (Kenya/Tanzania)

400

In Sikhism, a person drinks sweet water while prayers are read and promises to follow the Sikh way.

Amrit Ceremony

400

Students finish high school and take exams to qualify for higher education.

Indonesia – National Exam (Ujian Nasional)

400

Kids draw squares with chalk and hop on one foot to finish the path. Teaches balance.

La Rayuela (Hopscotch in Latin America)

500

At age 20, young adults dress in traditional clothes, go to a ceremony at city hall, and are welcomed as adults in society.

Seijin Shiki (Japan Coming of Age Day)

500

Boys put their hands in gloves full of biting ants to show bravery.

Bullet Ant Glove (Brazil Amazon tribes)

500

A child wears a white shirt and sacred thread and promises to follow the Zoroastrian faith.

Navjote (Zoroastrianism)

500

Teens finish high school and get certificates to continue education or start work.

Papua New Guinea – School Leaving Certificate

500

A stone-counting game that teaches math, strategy, and patience. It is one of the oldest games in the world.

Mancala (West Africa)