Cue States
Social Safety
Connections
Is it Shame?
Mind States
100

A cue state associated with anxiety, tension, flat face, and a monotone voice

Threat Cue

100

The skill that uses the five senses

What is the self-soothe skill?

100

You can use this skill to build connection with others  

What is Match +1 ?

100

This emotion can be warranted, partially warranted, or unwarranted 

What is shame? 

100

These are the three mind states in RO -DBT 

What is fixed, fatalistic, and flexible mind? 

200

This cue is associated with an urge to socialize

What is the social safety cue? 

200

This skill helps you slow your breathing down 

What is paced breathing 
200

True or False - the way to build trust in a relationship is to express openness and vulnerability 

What is True 

200

This emotion is prosocial and people like us more when we freely express it 

What is embarrassment? 

200

This mind state is associated with assuming you are right, stubbornness, and and urge to prove the other person wrong

What is fixed mind? 

300
When something unexpected happens, we quickly go o this cue state? 

What is the novelty cue? 

300

The skill that helps you relax your muscles  

What is muscle relaxation ? 
300

The skill is used when we want to communicate that we understand another person's emotions or responses

What is validation? 

300

We want to appease and repair harm done when shame is .... 

What is warranted? 

300

What mind state is associated with feeling hopeless, giving up, and avoiding? 

What is fatalistic mind? 

400

This skill uses three or four steps to activate social safety 

What is 3+1 or Fantastic Four? 

400

This skill helps expand social signaling and safety 

What is expansive gestures/facial expressions?

400

These are the steps for the PROVE skill

What is provide description, reveal feelings/opinions, consider others' needs, use valued goals to ask for what you want, 

400

We want to go opposite and not apologize when shame is ....

What is unwarranted?

400

True or False - it is never effective to be closed 

What is False?

500

The cue state that impacts the ability to notice others' social signaling

What is the reward cue? 

500

This is how you turn "off" the threat or shut down response 

What is activating social safety? 

500

"It makes sense that you're angry, anyone would feel angry in your situation" is an example of which level of validation? 

What is level 3 

500

The human species is designed to be sensitive to ....

What is rejection and/or to be socially anxious? 

500

A threatened mind is a _____ mind? 

What is closed?