The Capital of Cambodia.
What is Phnom Pehn?
After Mam escaped forced prostitution, this person helped her and later became her husband.
The brothel system in Cambodia highlights this theme, where traffickers exert control over vulnerable girls.
What is abuse of power (oppression)?
The imbalance between wealthy men and impoverished girls highlights this systematic issue.
What is economic inequality?
The leader of the Khmer Rouge who promoted communism.
Who is Pol Pot?
After escaping, Mam dedicates her life to helping victims through an organization she founded in 1996.
What is AFESIP (Agir pour les Femmes en Situation Precaire)?
Despite the adults in her life deceive her, when they should have been protecting her, the memoir explores this theme about broken trust.
What is betrayal?
What is corruption?
During the rule of the Khmer Rouge citizens were forced into rural areas to work primarily in this economic sector.
What is agriculture/farming?
The reason why Mam was sold into prostitution as a "necessary transaction" from her grandfather.
What is paying off debt?
The gradual emotional numbing that allows both victims and bystanders in the memoir to endure repeated exposure to violence, this is both a thematic and psychological response.
What is desensitization?
The moment she is told she "owes" money for her own captivity, i.e. food, clothes, and shelter, trapping her in this system of control.
What is debt bondage?
The Khmer Rouge banned this major religion which is practiced by most Cambodians.
What is Buddhism?
A dangerous myth, many men believe in Cambodia, which leads to a high number of young virgin girls in brothels.
What is the belief that young virgins cure aids?
The normalization of violence against girls in the memoir supports this theme about patriarchal control over woman's bodies?
What is gender based oppression?
The stripping away of personal agency demonstrates how exploitation depends on removing this fundamental human capacity.
What is autonomy?
During the Cambodian genocide about this many people died.
What is 1.5 million to 3 million?
Mam discusses that many women and girls return to the brothels after being helped out of them, because of a specific Cambodian social concept regarding 'lost' purity.
What is being a 'broken woman'?
Reclaiming her voice and telling her story represents the rebuilding of this essential part of self.
What is identity?
What is global complicity?