Needs
This is what is found in the middle of the Bad Behaviour Circle.
What are our needs?
In this parenting style the parent has little or nothing to do with the child and doesn't look after their physical or emotional needs
What is neglectful?
When we are in the downstairs part of our brain we are using what part of our brain
What is the amygdala?
Who is the author of Mindsets
Who is Carol Dweck?
This type of a response to a child's misbehaviour can be detrimental to their personal development
What is punishment?
These types of emotions come as a result of unmet needs
What are primary emotions?
With this parenting style, the parent allows the child to do what they like and doesn't hold them accountable for what they are doing
What is permissive?
The upstairs part of the brain is considered this part of our brain.
What is our prefrontal cortex?
These types of comments are not always beneficial for building a sense of self worth in our children.
What is praise?
This type of a response to a child's behaviour will help them learn.
What is discipline?
These emotions come as a result of unaddressed primary emotions
What are secondary emotions?
In this parenting style the parent is the boss and what they say goes. Punishment and harsh consequences can be used to get compliance.
What is authoritarian?
This causes us to think with our downstairs brain
What are big emotions?
This type of praise inhibited a child from wanting to improve their perfomance
What is character based praise?
These types of responses to a child's behaviour are often draconian and have little to do with the behaviour.
what are consequences?
These behaviours come as a result of unaddressed emotions.
What are Bad Behaviours?
This parenting style is considered the best parenting style and uses a mixture of warmth and accountability.
What is authoritative?
Working in this part of the brain brings the best results
What is our upstairs brain or Prefrontal cortex?
This type of praise encourages further effort and better performance.
What is effort based praise?
These types of outcome to behaviour bring with them opportunities to learn from the actions.
What are natural consequences?