Coming Together
Coming Apart
Skills In...
100

What is another term for the beginning stage?

Initiation Phase

100

What stage occurs when people begin to behave as individuals rather than a couple?


Differentiating Stage


100

Knowing how to approach others & make a good first impression.

Skill in Initiating Relationships

200

What phase is used when given superficial information?

Initiation Phase

200

What stage do the individuals in a couple communicate in shallow ways?

Circumscribing Stage

200

Telling your partner personal and information about yourself

Self Disclosure

300

What is the stage called where people disclose everything?

The Exchange Stage

300

What are the five stages in "coming apart?"

1. Differentiating

2.Circumscribing

3. Stagnating 

4. Avoiding 

5. Terminating 

300

Telling the each other things that you do not like or finding information that you find a deal breaker.

Negative Assertion 

400

What is the stage when you make promises, vows, and future plans?

Bonding Stage

400

If not able to avoid each other, the couple may just what?

Ignore each other 

400

Example: Connor does not listen to Rebecca, but Rebecca talks constantly to Connor about his problems.

Skill in Conflict Management

500

What is the primary mode of communication in the Experimenting Stage?

Small Talk

500

What are some contradictory emotions that couples feel during the stagnating stage?

Bored, unwanted, sentimental.

500

"Hey you look very nice. I've kissed over 40 girls."

In what skill does this person have a problem in?

Skill in Initiating