Physical Boundaries
True or False: Physical boundaries are the limits we set on our personal space & contact, touching, and comfortability with the people around us.
True!
True or False: Emotional boundaries include allowing ourselves to feel our feelings, being able to separate your emotions from other peoples, and respecting the privacy of others.
True!
How long should you get to know someone BEFORE you officially start dating?
At least 2 months. This time will look different with everyone, but using the '2-month rule' gives you time to build a friendship and figure out if they like you in a romantic way.
True or False: It is ok to not have a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner
True!
Ways we can respectfully let someone know they invaded our physical boundaries
Answers will vary; "Would you mind not touching my arm?" or "Can you ask for permission before you touch me next time?"
Ways we can tell someone they invaded our emotional boundaries.
Answers will vary; "You just hurt my feelings, can we talk about this later when I feel better?"
When should you start taking about marriage and children?--- After 2 weeks of dating or 2+ years of dating?
2+ years
Why is 2 weeks too soon to have this talk with your partner?
Do you think your age changes this amount of time?
Getting jealous that your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner is talking to another person is: A Healthy or Unhealthy Boundary
Unhealthy! It shows that you have not formed trust in your relationship and are not at a mature level to be in a romantic relationship
True or False: It is important to set physical boundaries even if you are dating this person.
True! Explain the importance to get the points for your team.
What do you think emotional energy is? (Take your best guess!)
The amount of emotions we are willing to show others and how much of their emotions/feelings we feel comfortable taking in.
True or False: You should share that you are dating someone with you friends and family immediately after the relationship is made official.
False.
How long do you think it should be before you share this information?
Fill in the blank: Just because you are ________ with someone doesn't mean you will make a good couple.
friends
Give 2 examples of physical boundaries.
Preferring handshakes to hugs, sharing your need for personal space, letting your partner know you need to be alone,...
True or False: Your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner should accept you emotional boundaries.
True! And if your emotional boundaries do not line up with one another and neither of you are willing to change, this may not be the relationship for you.
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What is consent?
Example: The couple both gave their consent to make sure it was ok with the other to hold hands.
True or False: Ignoring someones physical boundaries can lead to trouble with the police.
True, we have to respect the boundaries other people set even if we do not agree with them. If you take it too far you can face serious consequences.
Give 2 examples of emotional boundaries.
-Crying or not crying in front of others
-Remaining true to your feelings
-Asking for space when you are experiencing intense emotions
-Choosing to not talk about certain sensitive topics
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How long after you end a relationship with someone should you start dating again?--- 2 days or a couple of months?
A couple of months--- The amount of time will depend on your coping skills and ability to heal.
You should take time to focus on self care and ask yourself, "Am I over my ex?"
Why is 2 days not enough time?
What are the 3 C's of dating?
Communication, Compromise, Commitment