Habit 5
What does it mean to seek first to understand, then to be understood?
Listen first, talk second.
Working cooperatively with others to come up with a solution which is better than individuals could come up with by themselves .
What is synergize?
Regularly renewing and strengthens yourself and the 4 main dimensions of life.
What is, sharpening the saw?
Habits related to teamwork and better relationships.
What is public victory?
The roadblock to celebrating diversity.
What is ignorance?
What are the 5 poor listening types?
Spacing out, pretend listening, selective listening, word listening and self centered listening.
What are the 3 diversity’s mentioned?
Shun diversity, tolerate diversity, and celebrate diversity.
What are the 4 key dimensions?
1) Body- The physical dimension
2) Brain- the mental dimension
3) Heart- The emotional dimension
4) Soul- the spiritual dimension
Getting a new perspective about something or looking at something in a new way.
What is paradigm shift?
What are the 7 habits of highly DEFECTIVE teens?
1. react
2. Begin with no end in mind
3. Put first things last
4. think win-lose
5. Seek first to talk, then pretend to listen
6. Don’t cooperate
7. Wear yourself out
Giving feedback in the first person
What is I message?
The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
What is high way?
What is the 2nd rule of thumb?
Be moderate and avoid extremes.
Habits that involve improving ones self.
What is private victory?
When you put life on pause, what tools are in your toolbox to help?
Self awareness, conscience, imagination, and willpower.
Listen with your eyes, heart, and ears. Stand in their shoes. Practice mirroring.
What are genuine listening types?
The difference between innovators and harmonizers is…
Innovators have the imagination and creativity and harmonizers cheer the team on with cooperation here and there.
What are the mental Barrie’s for caring for your brain?
Screentime, the nerd syndrome, and pressure.
What happens when a teen goes through win-lose? What do they do?
What is tries to win at all costs?
What are the 4 personality types talked about?
1) Grapes- Imaginative
2) Oranges- Investigative
3) Bananas- Realistic
4) Melons- Analytical
Why is habit 5 the key to communication?
It is the deepest need of the human heart.
What are the steps in the action plan?
Define the problem or opportunity, then see things their way, then from your own way, brainstorm, and lastly the high way.
What are the 6 areas that college admission officers look for?
Desiree, standardized test scores, extracurricular, letters of recommendation, grade point average and communication skills.
A teen who puts their problems onto other people and projects.
What is reacting?
What does it mean in the Who am I poem when they define a habit as a machine with the intelligence of a human?
It means habits are done automatically with conscious choice.