Love?
Dysfunctional Family Roles
Attachments
Name that Drug/ Misc.
Men's Issues
100

Actions don't always speak louder than words. Unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing "I love You" is important to you. On the other hand insults can leave you shattered and you will not easily forget or forgive. 

Words of Affirmation

100

May feel unlovable and rejected by family. Uses as a means to cope and distract from family's core issues

What is an Addict

100

Sam has been fine with a stranger in the room until his mother leaves, because he is able to look back at her to make sure it’s safe to explore. Now that his mother has left the room, he is agitated and staying away from the stranger. When his mother comes back, he is delighted. This is because when he has shown uncertainty and concern in the past, his mother has responded comfortingly and consistently.

SAM - SECURE

100
  • Nausea, Abdominal pain, Sweating, Shaking, Nervousness, Agitation, Depression, Muscle spasms, and Cravings for drugs

What are withdrawal symptoms of Heroin?

100

Is Anger healthy? Defend your answer

Anger is healthy f expressed correctly. 

200

For this love language it is not so much what is spoken, rather you enjoy someone's undivided attention. Being there for a person is critical to this individual. This individual loved to have loved ones around and detests procrastination and canceling commitments.  

Quality Time

200

May feel pressure, anxiety, and feel overwhelmed. Uses humor to distract from the family's core issues

What is the Class Clown/Mascot

200

Anne is upset upon seeing the stranger in the room and avoids interactions with her. But when her father leaves for a bit and then comes back again, Anne avoids him as well and fails to cling to him when he picks Anne up.  This is because when she has shown uncertainty and concern, her father has ignored or been annoyed by the behavior, making Anne less likely to bother to seek comfort from him.

Anne = AVOIDANT

200

What STI do Koalas Carry? 

Chlamydia, a sexually transmitted disease (STD), affects humans as well as koalas; the bacterium Chlamydia trachomatis targets humans, while koalas are sickened by Chlamydia pecorum. Left untreated, chlamydia can cause infertility and permanent blindness in both species

200

Ture or False: Men are most likely to seek treatment for their using behaviors, emotions, and goals compared to women. 

False: Men are least likely to seek out treatment when it involves complex emotions. Most men end up in Substance Use treatment due to an external source, rather than internal.  

300

This person in NOT materialistic, however this individual values materials presented to them. They can be big, small, or in between. Special dates like anniversaries, father's day, and birthdays are important to them. Forgetting an event this important to this person can warrant the "Cold Shoulder". 

Receiving Gifts 

300

May feel rejected, neglected, and experience depression. Blend in, don't make a scene

What is the Lost Child

300

When Allen sees the stranger, he clings to his mother and then pushes her away. He shows a similar back-and-forth pattern when his mother comes back to the room after leaving for a bit. This is because when he has shown uncertainty or concern, his mother has been inconsistent—sometimes caring, sometimes annoyed. Thus, his reactions to her are equally inconsistent.

Allen = AVOIDANT

300

What two medications are most often used to treat withdrawal from Meth pertaining to anxiety? 

Lorazepam and Clonazepam

300

Name the cycle of which healthy expression of anger, becomes unhealthy. 

Anger turns into Aggression, Aggression then escalates to Violence. 

400

This person loves when an individual helps them to ease a burden. They enjoy it when a loved one is there to help with almost any needs, wants, or goal. They detest unmotivated people and those who break commitments to help. 

Acts of Service

400

May feel overwhelmed, on edge, and anxious. Absorbing and attempting to resolve the family's issues

What is the Enabler

400

Debby avoids interacting with others and becomes extremely fearful at times, which doesn’t change whether her father is in the room with her or not. This is because when she has shown uncertainty or concern, her father has neglected her, so she has come to the conclusion that she can’t depend on anyone.

Debby = Disorganized

400

What is the square root of 9? 

400

What are 3 specific consequences men face when suppressing emotions. (covered in group 2 weeks ago) 

Suppressing emotions can lead to depression and anxiety, but for men especially, it can also increase their risk of suicide. 

500

This language involves a lot of hugging, kissing, and holding hands. They feel connected on more than just an emotional level. They detest neglect, and abuse can be seen as unforgivable.  

Physical Touch

500

Name all 6 Dysfunctional family Roles

1. Addict 2. Enabler 3. Hero 4. Lost Child 5. Scapegoat 6. Class Clown

500

Name the 4 types of attachment

Secure, Avoidant, Ambivalent, Disorganized

500

What came first? The Chicken or the egg? 

Defend your answer!!! 

So in a nutshell, two birds that weren't really chickens created a chicken egg, and hence, we have an answer: The egg came first, and then it hatched a chicken.

500

Name three specific ways Men can address emotions. (these were covered in group 2 weeks ago) 

Be honest about the way you’re feeling. 

Find therapeutic hobbies 

See a therapist