Actions don't always speak louder than words. Unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing "I love You" is important to you. On the other hand insults can leave you shattered and you will not easily forget or forgive.
Words of Affirmation
May feel unlovable and rejected by family. Uses as a means to cope and distract from family's core issues
What is an Addict
Sam has been fine with a stranger in the room until his mother leaves, because he is able to look back at her to make sure it’s safe to explore. Now that his mother has left the room, he is agitated and staying away from the stranger. When his mother comes back, he is delighted. This is because when he has shown uncertainty and concern in the past, his mother has responded comfortingly and consistently.
SAM - SECURE
What are withdrawal symptoms of Heroin?
Is Anger healthy? Defend your answer
Anger is healthy f expressed correctly.
For this love language it is not so much what is spoken, rather you enjoy someone's undivided attention. Being there for a person is critical to this individual. This individual loved to have loved ones around and detests procrastination and canceling commitments.
Quality Time
May feel pressure, anxiety, and feel overwhelmed. Uses humor to distract from the family's core issues
What is the Class Clown/Mascot
Anne is upset upon seeing the stranger in the room and avoids interactions with her. But when her father leaves for a bit and then comes back again, Anne avoids him as well and fails to cling to him when he picks Anne up. This is because when she has shown uncertainty and concern, her father has ignored or been annoyed by the behavior, making Anne less likely to bother to seek comfort from him.
Anne = AVOIDANT
What STI do Koalas Carry?
Chlamydia, a sexually transmitted disease (STD), affects humans as well as koalas; the bacterium Chlamydia trachomatis targets humans, while koalas are sickened by Chlamydia pecorum. Left untreated, chlamydia can cause infertility and permanent blindness in both species
Ture or False: Men are most likely to seek treatment for their using behaviors, emotions, and goals compared to women.
False: Men are least likely to seek out treatment when it involves complex emotions. Most men end up in Substance Use treatment due to an external source, rather than internal.
This person in NOT materialistic, however this individual values materials presented to them. They can be big, small, or in between. Special dates like anniversaries, father's day, and birthdays are important to them. Forgetting an event this important to this person can warrant the "Cold Shoulder".
Receiving Gifts
May feel rejected, neglected, and experience depression. Blend in, don't make a scene
What is the Lost Child
When Allen sees the stranger, he clings to his mother and then pushes her away. He shows a similar back-and-forth pattern when his mother comes back to the room after leaving for a bit. This is because when he has shown uncertainty or concern, his mother has been inconsistent—sometimes caring, sometimes annoyed. Thus, his reactions to her are equally inconsistent.
Allen = AVOIDANT
What two medications are most often used to treat withdrawal from Meth pertaining to anxiety?
Lorazepam and Clonazepam
Name the cycle of which healthy expression of anger, becomes unhealthy.
Anger turns into Aggression, Aggression then escalates to Violence.
This person loves when an individual helps them to ease a burden. They enjoy it when a loved one is there to help with almost any needs, wants, or goal. They detest unmotivated people and those who break commitments to help.
Acts of Service
May feel overwhelmed, on edge, and anxious. Absorbing and attempting to resolve the family's issues
What is the Enabler
Debby avoids interacting with others and becomes extremely fearful at times, which doesn’t change whether her father is in the room with her or not. This is because when she has shown uncertainty or concern, her father has neglected her, so she has come to the conclusion that she can’t depend on anyone.
Debby = Disorganized
What is the square root of 9?
3
What are 3 specific consequences men face when suppressing emotions. (covered in group 2 weeks ago)
Suppressing emotions can lead to depression and anxiety, but for men especially, it can also increase their risk of suicide.
This language involves a lot of hugging, kissing, and holding hands. They feel connected on more than just an emotional level. They detest neglect, and abuse can be seen as unforgivable.
Physical Touch
Name all 6 Dysfunctional family Roles
1. Addict 2. Enabler 3. Hero 4. Lost Child 5. Scapegoat 6. Class Clown
Name the 4 types of attachment
Secure, Avoidant, Ambivalent, Disorganized
What came first? The Chicken or the egg?
Defend your answer!!!
So in a nutshell, two birds that weren't really chickens created a chicken egg, and hence, we have an answer: The egg came first, and then it hatched a chicken.
Name three specific ways Men can address emotions. (these were covered in group 2 weeks ago)
Be honest about the way you’re feeling.
Find therapeutic hobbies
See a therapist