Caring
Relationships
Relationships
These kinds of people (18+ yrs) can provide you with emotional support and guidance.
What are Trusted Adults?
The two types of harmful behaviors we discussed in class this week.
What are Physical and Emotional?
# out of # teens in the U.S. is a victim of physical, sexual, emotional or verbal abuse from a dating partner.
What is 1 out of 3?
The relationship moves at a speed that feels enjoyable for each person. You’re both on the same page with how the relationship is moving.
What is Healthy?
An instinct that helps you get the feel for a situation before having a clear reason or explanation; often, it is an uncomfortable feeling that tells you something is dangerous or wrong. It's important to listen to this.
What is a Gut Reaction/Instinct?
3 qualities of a caring relationship.
What are (answers vary)?
Spreading false information about someone, typically with the intention of damaging their reputation or causing harm.
What is gossiping/spreading rumors/talking about someone behind their back?
Abusive relationships are about having _____ and _____ over another person.
What is Power and Control?
Someone who gets jealous and upset when you text or hang out with people they feel threatened by; they may make excuses saying that they are overprotective or having really strong feelings for you.
What is Unhealthy?
If a friend comes to you upset or in trouble, it’s important to be _____ and _____. Believe them and let them know that any abuse they experienced is not their fault.
What are Supportive and Helpful?
The ability to understand and share the feelings of another person, putting yourself in their shoes to comprehend and connect with their emotional experience.
What is Empathy?
When someone keeps you away from friends, family, or other people. This behavior often starts slowly with someone asking you to spend more 1:1 time with them but can later escalate to demands that you don’t see certain people
What is Isolation?
When someone tries to control your decisions, actions or emotions; it is often hard to spot, because it can be expressed in subtle or passive-aggressive ways.
What is Manipulation?
When someone does and says things to make you feel bad about yourself. This includes name-calling, making rude remarks about people you’re close with, or criticizing you.
What is Unhealthy?
When giving help, it's important to know about the _____ in your community; these can include school counselors, hotline numbers, and local medical or crisis services.
What are Resources?
A communication skill that involves fully focusing, understanding, and responding to someone, demonstrating genuine interest and empathy.
What is Active Listening?
When someone makes you feel responsible for their actions or makes you feel like it’s your job to keep them happy. They may blame you for things that are out of your control and make you feel bad for them.
What is Guilting/Guilt Tripping?
This is a word used in certain situations to immediately stop or pause an activity for safety and consent purposes.
What is a safe word?
When someone has really strong, unpredictable reactions that makes you feel scared, confused or intimidated; this person makes you feel like you need to walk on eggshells around them or they will have extreme reactions to small things; they may lose control by getting violent, yelling or threatening you.
What is Abusive?
If a person is threatening to harm themselves or others, you should tell a _(2 words)_ immediately.
What is a Trusted Adult?
3 ways you can show respect in your relationship.
What are (answers vary)?
The act of threatening to reveal damaging or embarrassing information about someone unless they comply with certain demands.
What is Blackmailing?
An act of violence that involves manipulating, coercing, or physically forcing or threatening someone to engage in sexual activity without their consent; examples can include rape, unwanted sexual contact, or demanding/distributing nude images of a person.
What is Sexual Assault?
You have confidence that the other person won’t do anything to hurt you or ruin the relationship; trust comes easily and you don’t have to question the other person’s intentions or whether they have your back. They respect your privacy and would never put you through a “test” to prove your loyalty.
What is Healthy?
If an adult suspects that a child (<18) is being abused or neglected in New Jersey must report the matter immediately to ______
What is New Jersey State Central Intake (SCI)/CYFD/CPS/Child Protective Services/Law Enforcement?