TERMS
SCENARIOS
DEFINITIONS
ways to get help
100

Grooming 

The practice of training or preparing someone for a particular purpose or activity 

100


Tess and Brian have been friends and neighbors since they were in second grade. Brian loves giving Tess a hard time at school. He thinks it is funny that she and the rest of girls get embarrassed when he or the other boys brush up against them from behind or by making comments about how short their skirts are. Tess is not used to Brian touching her or looking at her like that, but she rather likes it. This week she has been writing him notes in class asking Brian if he has ever kissed or gone further with any of the other girls in their grade, and whether he wishes he could do those things with her. Brian’s mother found one of Tess’ notes in Brian’s pocket when she was doing the laundry yesterday, but she gave it back to Brian- assuming that the kids were just joking.


Brian is acting inappropriate towards Tess 

Brian and his friends are acting inappropriate towards classmate 

Tess is writing inappropriate notes to Brian 

Brians mom is not taking the situation serious 

100

respect

Speaking and acting with courtesy treating others with dignity and respect 

100

Who is the best person to talk to when you feel unsafe 

a trusted adult that can be a parent teacher or anyone older that you trust 

200

Harassment 

agressive pressure or intimidation 

200

Chase really likes movies and TV and he wants to be an actor someday. At school and church, he is always in the plays and musicals. Most of his friends are girls so some of the other boys in religious education and at youth group call him vulgar names or shove and trip him if he gets too close to them.Chase’s friends, Elizabeth and Stacy, sometimes tell the other boys to stop, but they also laugh because sometimes what they say about Chase is funny. The youth minister, David, usually ignores what happens to Chase, thinking the boys are just acting tough and that if Chase acted less feminine when he was interacting with the other kids, it would be a lot easier for him.


Elizabeth and Stacy are bystanders and are allowing them to continue by laughing 

David the youth minister is allowing the bullying to happen 

David in a way is also taking part in the bullying as he agrees with the bullies 

200

Chastity

is sexual self control or saving all sexually intimate acts for marriage.

is the virtue that seeks to control and moderate ones sexual desire and actions 

200

True or false the best thing to do when feeling unsafe is tell a friend so you can vent 

false you need to tell a trusted adult 

300

sexual abuse 

also referred to as molestation, is abusive sexual behavior by one person upon another.

300


Texting back and forth with an adult teacher about your personal life


that is inappropriate as they should not be having any private messages about your personal life 

300

Temperance 

is self control, self mastery, and moderation in regards to pleasures and desires  

300

what can you do in order to keep others safe 

report the abuse that has happened to you or that you have seen so that an investigation can happen and this keeps other people from getting hurt 

400

physical abuse 

Physical abuse is when someone hurts or harms a child or any person on purpose. It includes: hitting with hands or objects. slapping and punching.

400

one of your family members tell you to help them with something. During that time they keep brushing up against you. what is this an example of 

sexual abuse 

groping 

harassment 

400

Bullying 

one or more people intentionally causing injury or discomfort to anther. These aggressive attacks leave the person  being bullied feeling hurt fearful or violated 

500

emotional abuse 

is a form of abuse characterized by a person subjecting or exposing another person to a behavior that may result in psychological trauma, including anxiety, chronic depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder.