8 Never-Nevers
What is the #1 safety rule that starts with "Always...?"
Always ask first (Always ask a parent or person in charge first before going somewhere, taking something, or eating/drinking something)
What are the 3 Ways to Stay Safe?
Recognize, Report, Refuse
What are the 3 Types of Touches?
1. Safe Touch
2. Unsafe Touch
3. Unwanted Touch
What is the Touching Rule/Private Body Parts Rule?
A person should never touch your private body parts except to keep you healthy. (No touch, see, show yours/theirs/others.)
What is the Never Keep Secrets Rule?
Never keep secrets about touching/broken private body parts rule. Recognize, Refuse, Report
Never touch guns
Never play with fire
What does Recognize mean?
Pause and Think: Is this safe? Is there a rule about this?
What does Safe Touch mean plus an example?
Any kind of touch that makes you feel cared for/loved/good for your body and is wanted by both. ie. hug, high five, handshake
Who are people who might need to check your private parts to keep you healthy?
Doctor, Nurse, Primary Guardian
Why would someone tell you to keep a secret about a broken private body parts rule?
They know that what they're doing is wrong and don't want to get into trouble.
What are the rules about a helmet and water?
Never ride on wheels without a helmet
Never go in water without an older person watching
Talk to an adult about something unsafe that you saw, are currently experiencing, or that might happen.
What does Unsafe Touch mean plus an example?
Any kind of touch that hurts your body. ie. hitting, slapping, kicking
We usually define Private Body Parts as all of the parts of the body covered by a what?
Bathing Suit
What is something someone might say to make you keep a secret about a broken private body parts rule?
1. If you tell, you'll be in big trouble
2. If you tell, I'll hurt you or your family.
3. If you tell, you won't get the special surprise I have for you.
4. If you tell....(anything that you might not want)
What are three never-never rules?
Never touch guns
Never play with fire
Never ride on wheels without a helmet
Never go in water without an older person watching
Never use a sharp tool without an older person’s help
Never ride in a car without wearing a seatbelt
Never touch a dog without asking the person in charge
Never cross the street without checking all ways for traffic
What does Refuse mean?
Say words that mean “No”
What does Unwanted Touch mean, plus an example?
Any kind of touch that you just don’t want right now, or that makes you feel uncomfortable. ie. hug, tickle, slap, kiss
True/False: Even if a doctor, nurse or guardian is checking your private body parts to keep you healthy, you have a right to say, "Stop. I don't want that."
True
What should you do if the grown up you're reporting to doesn't believe you?
Tell another grown up until they believe you. Keep telling!
Safely respond to this scene: Your older sister wants to drive you to soccer practice, but the car is full of her friends, and you'd have to sit on someone's lap without a seatbelt.
1. Recognize: This would break the never-never rule about not wearing a seatbelt.
2. Refuse: "No thanks--I want a ride, but I need to wear a seatbelt."
3. Report: Tell your guardian about the unsafe circumstance. Ask them for a ride and what to do in the future.
Safely Respond to this scene: At the end of the school day, your friend invites you over after school to their house to play.
1. Recognize: I need to ask first
2. Refuse: "I'd love to, but I need to check in with my guardian first. I'll call you when I get home and ask them."
3. Report: Talk to your guardian about possible plans.
Safely respond to this scene: While you're lining up from recess, another student intentionally bumps into you every day trying to be funny.
1. Recognize: This is an Unwanted Touch and I don't like it.
2. Refuse: "Stop bumping into me. I don't like it."
3. Report: to teacher--"I need to report an Unwanted Touch."
Safely respond to this scene: You like to use your tablet to chat with people from all over the world on the internet. Today a friend sent you pictures of someone's private body parts and asked you what you thought?
1. Recognize: This is breaking the Private Body Parts Rule
2. Refuse: Don't respond and don't delete
3. Report: Take your tablet to your guardian and show them the images. Let them take steps to make sure you and others are safe within the chat group.
Safely respond to this scene: You and your babysitter like to play games on your phone together after school. One day your babysitter asks if you want to sees pictures of people with no clothes on. You're curious so you say 'okay.' The babysitter says, "These are just for you. Your family will be very angry with you if they find out you looked at these photos, but I won't tell. This can be our secret."
1. Recognize: This is breaking the Private Body Parts Rule
2. Refuse: "I changed my mind. I don't want to see them." or "I don't want to see anymore. This is breaking the Private Body Parts Rule."
3. Report: Tell your guardian about what happened. It is not your fault that the babysitter broke the Private Body Parts rule. We never keep secrets about someone breaking the Private Body Parts Rule.