Definitions
What is the term for using words or actions to hurt, scare, or control someone?
Abuse
True or False: Grooming is when someone builds a relationship to eventually take advantage of another person.
True
True or False: You can take back your consent at any time.
True
True or False: It’s okay to share a friend’s personal information without asking them first.
False
Name one example of a safe touch.
A high-five, handshake, pat on the back, or a hug from someone you trust and feel comfortable with.
True or False: Physical abuse is the only type of abuse.
False. (There are also emotional, verbal, sexual, and digital abuse types.)
Name one method a groomer might use to gain a young person’s trust.
Offering gifts, giving extra attention, making them feel “special,” or being very supportive.
If a friend says they aren’t comfortable with something, what should you do?
Respect their boundary and stop the behavior immediately.
What is one way to keep personal information safe online?
Don’t share passwords, avoid oversharing personal details, or keep social media profiles private.
What might an unsafe touch feel like?
It may feel uncomfortable, unwanted, forced, or make you feel scared, nervous, or confused.
Define “emotional abuse.”
Emotional abuse is when someone uses words or actions to manipulate, control, or hurt someone emotionally.
What is one of the early warning signs that someone may be trying to groom you or a friend?
An adult or older person spends extra time alone with you, gives excessive compliments, or encourages secrets.
What is an example of a physical boundary someone might set?
Give examples:
“I’m not comfortable with hugging,” or “Please don’t touch me without asking.”
Any other examples?
What should you do if someone you don’t know sends you a friend request or message online?
Don’t accept or respond if you feel uncomfortable; report if necessary.
Name one type of touch that would be considered inappropriate in any situation.
Touching private areas, forcing a hug or kiss, or any touch that is done without consent.
What does the term "consent" mean in relationships?
Consent is an agreement between people to engage in a specific activity, given freely and enthusiastically without pressure.
If someone tells you to keep parts of your relationship “a secret” from others, especially adults, what might this indicate?
It could be a red flag for grooming, as groomers often ask for secrecy to prevent their behavior from being discovered.
Name two ways to ask for consent.
“Is this okay with you?” or “Do you want to continue?”
If someone asks you for a picture and you feel uncomfortable, what should you do?
Say no, set boundaries, and if they persist, consider blocking or reporting them.
True or False: Only strangers can give unsafe touches.
False. (Unsafe touches can come from anyone, including people you know.)
Define “sexual abuse.”
Sexual abuse involves any unwanted or non-consensual sexual contact or behavior, including pressure or force to engage in sexual acts.
Name two emotions a groomer might try to make a person feel to keep them dependent.
Guilt, fear, loyalty, or a sense of special treatment.
True or False: If someone agrees to something once, they are always okay with it in the future.
False. (Consent must be given each time.)
True or False: It’s safe to share your location on social media posts and stories.
False. (Sharing location can reveal your whereabouts to strangers and compromise your safety.)
Name two safe adults you could talk to if someone touches you in an unsafe way.
Parent, teacher, counselor, school nurse, or another trusted adult.