General
Where is the school counselor's office
In the Fourth grade hallway
The person in the school that will listen to your problems is called the _____________ ____________.
School Counselor
Is it okay to get angry?
Yes! Feeling angry is a normal feeling that all people experience sometimes. It is what you do when you are angry that can be okay or not okay.
Can you see the school counselor if you are having a hard time in school?
Yes! The school counselor can help you with problems in school; academic, social and emotional
What colors are my office?
Blue and Pink
What is your school counselor's name? and can you spell it?
Mrs. Colloton
Will the school counselor tell your parents, teachers or friends what you have told her?
NO! The school counselor keeps all of your information confidential (private) except if:
You are in danger of being hurt
Someone else is in danger of being hurt
You give the school counselor permission to share
Name 3 acceptable things you can do if you are feeling an uncomfortable emotion such as anger, sadness, frustration or worry.
Talk to a trusted adult
Take deep breaths
Exercise
Squeeze something soft
Read
Listen to music
What should you journal about when we journal?
How I feel, why I feel that way and where do I feel it.
How Long will it take me to get you for a request to talk?
It depends on if its an emergency:) If its an emergency the same day, otherwise a day or two
A school counselor meets with groups of students to teach about things like friendship, conflict resolution, or self-esteem. These are called what?
Small Groups
What are some reasons you might want or need to talk to the school counselor? name 3
Friendship issues
Family problems
Strategies to deal with anger
Loss of a loved one or pet
Someone has hurt your or someone else
You need someone to listen to you
To share a joy or success
Name 3 ways to be a good friend
Be a good listener
Be helpful
Encourage
Give a compliment
Be happy for them in their successes
Invite them to sit with you at lunch
Include the person in activities
Invite the person to play
Be a good sport
Show respect
Get your work done
Ask for help when you are confused
Study a little bit each day
Stay focused and listen
Get your homework done on time
Stay organized
What do I enjoy doing with students?
I love reading books for students!
Having lunch groups, teaching students new things and learning things about you.
I love seeing and hearing great things you and your classmates are doing.
Name 3 things a school counselor does.
Helps students in the classroom with problems, Helps kids in group, helps kids one on one with problems, helps kids with family problems
What is bullying?
Hurting someone physically, emotionally, or socially over and over again and on purpose and wont stop when asked to stop.
Name 3 adults you can talk to if you have a problem with a friend or classmate
Teacher
School Counselor (Ms. Colloton)
Principal (Mrs. Hayes)
Parent
Grandparent
Aunt/Uncle
Why is it important to be organized?
Saves time
Reduces stress
Saves space
Saves money and resources
Keeps your focus on learning
How long have I been a school counselor?
This is my 7th year as a counselor
How do I inform the counselor that I need to speak to her?
Tell the counselor in person (or by email!)
Tell you parent
Tell your teacher
Fill out a counselor request form found on my door
If a friend tells you he/she is being hurt or bullied by someone at home or at school should you keep it a secret?
No! You should tell a trusted adult right away - counselor, teacher, principal or parent.
What are the Kelso's Choices?
Tell them to stop, go to another game, Share and take turns, walk away, ignore it, play another game, talk it out, cool down, apologize
Why is it important to have a positive attitude toward school and learning?
A positive attitude leads to positive outcomes
If you think you can, you can
Growth mindset
If you think positively you feel positive. If you think negatively, you feel negative.
What do I like to do when I am not at school
Spend time with my family and friends
Listen to music
Running
Go to the beach
Watch my kids play soccer
Spend time outside