What is the "personal space"?
The area around someone where they feel comfortable with close friends and family.
What does it mean if someone crosses their arms and steps back?
They may feel uncomfortable or need more space.
Which of these is a safe touch: a high-five or pushing someone?
High-five
What are two words you can say if someone makes you feel uncomfortable?
“No” or “Stop.”
Who is someone you can talk to at school if you feel uncomfortable with someone’s touch?
Teacher, counselor, or school nurse.
True or False: It’s okay to stand really close to someone you just met.
False
True or False: Smiling usually shows that someone is comfortable and friendly.
True
True or False: It’s okay to give someone a hug without asking if they seem upset.
False
True or False: It’s always okay to say “no” if you feel uncomfortable.
True
True or False: You should only ask for help if you are in serious danger.
False
Ask anytime you feel uncomfortable!
How do you know how much space someone needs?
Ask them if they’re comfortable or watch their body language for clues
If you’re talking to someone and they look away or start moving away, what should you do?
Give them more space or ask if they’re okay.
Give an example of a touch that might be okay with family but not with classmates.
Hugging, holding hands, or tickling.
What is one polite way to tell a friend you don’t want to be hugged?
“I don’t feel like hugging right now, but thank you!”
Name 1 adult outside of school you can go to if someone doesn’t respect your personal space.
Parents, family members, family friends, or community members
If someone steps back when you stand close to them, what are they trying to tell you?
They feel uncomfortable / need more personal space.
Name 2 body language clues that can show someone is happy or comfortable.
Smiling, relaxed body, eye contact, leaning in.
What should you do if someone touches you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable?
Say “No,” tell them to stop, and talk to a trusted adult.
If someone keeps doing something you don’t like even after you said “No,” what should you do?
Walk away and tell a trusted adult.
If a friend says someone made them feel uncomfortable, what can you do to help them?
Listen, support them, and encourage them to talk to a trusted adult.
Why is it important to give personal space when waiting in line at school or the store?
To show respect for others, so everyone feels comfortable and safe.
Explain why noticing other people’s body language is important for respecting personal space.
It helps us understand when people are comfortable or uncomfortable, so we know when to give space or adjust our behavior.
Explain the difference between a safe touch and an unsafe touch
(Bonus 50pts: give one example of each?)
Safe touch is friendly or caring, like a high-five; unsafe touch is harmful or makes someone feel bad, like hitting or unwanted hugging.
Why is it important to say “No” firmly if someone is in your personal space and you’re uncomfortable?
It helps the other person understand your boundaries and shows them you are SERIOUS about your personal space.
True or False: Telling an adult makes you a snitch.
False.
Respecting personal space is important, and a trusted adult can help make sure you feel safe and respected.