SEL Categories
The ability to show understanding and empathy for others.
Social Awareness
Characteristics of a HEALTHY friendship (5)
Respect, Trust, Communication, Compromise, and Individuality
Name an example of a negative consequence
There are many....
Fight= Suspension
Cut Class=lunch detention/miss out on your classwork
Fail to study=Fail your test
True or False:
An acquaintance can also be a best friend
FALSE
The 5 main categories of Social Emotional Learning (SEL)
Self-Awareness, Self-Management, Social Awareness, Relationship Skills and Responsible Decision-Making
The ability to make good, constructive choices about our personal behavior and social interactions.
Responsible Decision-Making
Characteristics of a TOXIC friendship
One-sided friendship (Unbalanced Power)
Unsupportive Friend
Name an example of a positive consequence
Study=pass your test
Complete chores= earn an allowance, or something special
True or False:
Consequences are only negative
FALSE:
Consequences can be negative OR positive
Being able to put yourself in someone else’s shoes in order to understand how he/she may feel.
Empathy
The ability to manage our emotions and behaviors to achieve our goals.
Self-Management
Healthy OR Toxic Friendship:
Your friend Justin is so much fun to hang around. Sometimes at lunch Justin waits until a lot of people are around then he makes fun of the clothes you're wearing. You laugh with everyone even though you feel embarrassed.
TOXIC
What should you do if your action leads to a negative consequence?
1. Admit your mistake
2. Apologize if you have negatively affected someone
3. Learn from your mistake and choose a better action in the future
True or False:
Thinking about the consequences of our actions might help us make the best possible choice.
TRUE
What is the difference between a friend and a best friend?
A best friend is someone you may share your "secrets" with.
A best friend is a level higher than a friend.
A best friend is someone you spend MOST of your time with.
The ability to recognize our own emotions and values as well as one's strengths and challenges.
Self-Awareness
Healthy OR Toxic Friendship:
Derrick and Miguel have plans to hang out. Derrick wants to stay indoors and play video games. Miguel wants to go to the park and play soccer. Miguel and Derrick decide to play soccer and then go to Derrick's house to play PS5.
HEALTHY
Bonus point- Which characteristic is this?
The result of our actions
Consequence
True or False:
A bully is a person with good decision-making skills
FALSE
What is an Acquaintance?
Someone you have seen a few times but you don't know them personally.
The ability to establish positive relationships, work well in teams, and problem solve conflict with others.
Relationship Skills
Name the 5 types of peer relationships
Classmate, Bandmate (teammate), Friend, Best Friend, and Acquaintance
What are 3 Strategies for making good choices
1. Stop & Think
2. Consider the consequences (pros + cons)
3. Make the best possible choice
True or False:
Receiving a school suspension is positive consequence.
FALSE
Healthy OR Toxic Friendship:
Sarah likes to vent to her friend Jenna because she gives great advice, but when Jenna needs someone to talk to Sarah always makes excuses to avoid speaking with her.
TOXIC (Unsupportive friend)