Big Feelings
Friendship
Fixes
Conflict Crushers
Responsible
Choices
Growth Mindset
100

Scenario: You worked really hard on your multiplication practice, but you made mistakes.

Answer: It's okay to feel disappointed. Take a breath, learn from mistakes, and try again.

100

Scenario:
A classmate asks to join your game, but your team is already playing.

Answer:

Include them or help find a fair solution.

100

Scenario:
Someone takes your pencil without asking.

Answer: 

Tell a teacher 

Let them know that that was your pencil 

get another pencil if it wasn't one from home

100

 Scenario:
You forgot your homework at home.

Answer:

Be honest and make a plan.

100

Scenario: You look at your math work and think, "I can't do this."  

Answer: Change your words to: "I can't do this...yet!"

200

Someone accidentally bumps into you in line and you feel angry.

  • Pause
  • Check if it was accidental
  • Use respectful words

Example:
"I would stop, calm down, and say, ‘Please be careful.’"

200

Scenario:
Your friend forgot your birthday.

Answer:

Communicate feelings respectfully.

200

Scenario: Your partner isn't helping during science.

Answer: Talk respectfully and problem solve.

200

Scenario:
Your group wants to play instead of finishing work.

Be responsible finish your part or talk to the teacher

200

Scenario: Your classmate finishes their writing before you.

Answer: Everyone learns at their own pace. Focus on your own growth.

300

Scenario:
You feel nervous before presenting.

Answer:

  • Positive self-talk
  • Deep breathing
  • Practice
300

Scenario:
Two friends both want to sit next to you.

Answer:

Be fair, compromise.

300

Scenario: Someone cuts in front of you in line.

Answer: Stay calm and speak up respectfully.

300

Scenario:
No one is watching and you see answers on someone’s desk.

Stop looking at the answer and go back to doing your test.. be a honest person don't cheat

300

Scenario: You make a mistake while reading out loud.

Answer: Mistakes help our brains grow. Fix it and keep going.

400

Scenario:
Your friends are laughing and you think they might be laughing at you.

Answer:

  • Don’t assume
  • Ask calmly
  • Use “I feel” statements 
400

Scenario:
Your best friend starts hanging out with someone else.

Avoid jealousy, communicate honestly.

400

Scenario: Someone says something unkind about you

Answer: Tell a trusted adult if needed.

400

Scenario:
You accidentally break classroom supplies.

Answer:

Tell the truth.

400

Scenario: You've been practicing your multiplication facts, but some are still tricky.

Answer: Keep practicing, ask questions, and don't give up

500

Scenario:
You’re frustrated because a project isn’t going how you planned.

Answer:

  • Take a break
  • Problem solve
  • Keep trying
500

A friend tells you something that makes you worried about their safety.

Answer: Tell a trusted adult.

500

Scenario: A classmate sends a mean message in a class app.

Answer: Do not respond angrily. Tell an adult.

500

Scenario:
Your friends dare you to do something against school rules.

Answer:

Say no confidently.

500

Scenario: Your class is learning long division, and even after practicing, you still feel confused.

Answer: Learning hard things takes time. Ask questions, use your strategies, and keep practicing