Intro to SEL
What is SEL?
Social Emotional Learning
What is SELF LOVE? (Give details)
Taking care of your own needs before others
Putting yourself first
Caring about your own happiness and well-being
Name a quality of a good friend or healthy relationship
Trustworthy, Nice/Kind
Good listener, Helpful, Honest, Dependable,
Always there, Thoughtful
Definition of _______
1. Treating and acting kindly towards others
2. Something that is earned and given in return
3. Builds feelings of trust and safety
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Name one tip/key Scooby & Shaggy shared about maintaining healthy relationships.
Be silly sometimes
Share and have fun
Stand up for each other
Learn from each other
Accept differences
Spend time/do things together
Show you care, Be thoughtful
Why is SEL so Important? (Identify at least 3 pros)
Emotion regulation/ better behavior
Healthy/ long-lasting relationships & support systems
Success in school and life
Responsible decision making
Better Future
Strong sense of self/high self esteem/ confidence
Give an example of SELF RESPONSIBILITY
Holding myself accountable for my actions
Not blaming others
Cleaning up behind myself
Being INDEPENDENT
What kind of relationships exist/are there?
Family, Friends, Parents,
Husband/Wife, Siblings, Faith/Religion
Pets/Animals, Plants
Unhealthy ones (:
What is SELF-RESPECT?
A feeling of pride, confidence in oneself. Treating yourself kindly and knowing others should too.
When a conflict arises with somebody, you sometimes have to:
a) Walk away b) Get over it!
c) Compromise d) Argue until they give in!
Answer is "C" (Compromise)
Who adds color (makes your life more exciting) to your life?
MOM , DAD , SISTER(S), BROTHER(S)
STEP-PARENTS, COUSINS, TEACHERS
COUNSELORS, FRIENDS, COACHES
FAMILY, PETS, AUNT(S)/ UNCLE(S)
GRANDPARENTS
How do you show yourself love?
Saying kind things to myself (aka affirmations)
Showing self-respect
Treating myself to something positive that I enjoy
Giving myself a hug
What is a compromise?
When you (or a group of people) give up something to reach an agreement- may not be what you want, but you reach a solution
Why is Self-Respect so important?
Self-respect is important because it enables you to set the standard for how others treat you. IF you respect yourself, others will too.
What is a mediator?
A person who helps people in a conflict come to an agreement.
Who is SEL for? (Who needs to learn about SEL?)
EVERYBODY benefits from SEL
What are Affirmations? OR give an example of an affirmation
Positive statements
positive self-talk
Saying kind things to yourself
Why is it important to forgive others?
Maintain your friendship
Good for your health
No stress
How do you show respect for others?
Use manners, Being quiet, Listening
Following rules, Helping others, Cleaning up
Being kind, Sharing, Taking turns, no bullying
Who can you use as a mediator?
An adult you trust.
Parents/Guardians
Teachers'/Counselors/ School Support staff/ Administrators
Older sister/brother/ cousin/family member
What is EMPATHY?
EMPATHY is the ability to understand and share feelings of another person.
"Walking in somebody else's shoes..."
SELF LOVE is about loving _____?
YOU!!!
What is Conflict Resolution? Meaning, its purpose...
Finding a peaceful solution to a problem together!
What is the GOLDEN RULE?
Treat others the way you want to be treated!
Share three affirmations!
I am.....
I love my.....
I will.....