Feelings
You are playing basketball and accidentally get hit by the ball in the stomach. How do you feel?
Hurt, upset, sad, angry
What can you do if your friend is feeling sad?
You can listen to them, offer support, try to cheer them up
Sometimes we can have sad feelings. What should you do when you feel sad at school?
Ask to take a break, give yourself lot of positive self talk, talk to an adult at school
When you join groups, you should greet everyone and ask people how they're doing. True or false.
True. It makes people feel welcome into the group & it's nice to have conversation before groups begin.
You don't understand the work you are supposed to do. Who can you ask for help?
Teacher, Parent, Friend
How might you feel if someone you are trying to talk to is ignoring you?
Sad, confused, or upset
What can you do if your friend is mad at you for something you did to them?
Apologize, say sorry, and listen
What should you do if you are getting answers wrong during a group game and you're beginning to feel frustrated?
Ask if you can take a break; take deep breaths; talk to your teacher about it; use encouraging self-talk in your head
True or False. When someone says you did something wrong they are being mean.
False- most of the time when someone tells you that you have done something wrong they are only trying to help you.
Your parent gives you a consequence that you don't feel is appropriate. What should you say/do?
Accept the consequence.
Calmly explain why you don't believe you deserve the consequence.
True of False- feeling mad, sad, angry, tired...are all OK feelings?
People are making fun of your friend and you see them calling him names. What should you do?
Stand up for your friend and tell an adult if needed Talk to your friend after and make sure they're ok.
What can you do if you are feeling angry?
Talk to your parents if you are at home, counselor, teacher. Use one of your coping skills. ask for space/break
Why is it important to stay on topic during a conversation?
It makes others happy, shows you care and shows respect.
If you feel you are being bullied, who should you talk to?
Teachers!!!
How might someone feel if they have done something wrong and they know it was wrong?
Guilty, worried
take a break, take a walk, use the rocking chair, listen to music
A friend said something that hurt your feelings. What can you do?
Tell them how you feel with a nice voice and explain why. Avoid yelling at them. tell them to stop or give you personal space
Sometimes we can have sad feelings. What should you do when you feel sad at school?
Ask to take a break, give yourself lot of positive self talk, talk to an adult at school
A friend asks you to do something you know is inappropriate/wrong. What do you do?
Don't do it, tell them to stop, personal space. say "no thanks."
True or False- you should never be angry
False. It is ok to feel any feeling you feel. But how you express those feelings has to be appropriate
When you are having STRONG feelings and you don't want to talk. How can you respectfully ask for space?
Can I have a break
Can I have a minute
Can I please have space
...
What is the best way to deal with a group member that keeps talking over you?
Say "excuse me ____ but I was still speaking." Then continue with what you were saying before.
What is bullying?
It can look like a lot of different things but it's when one person is trying to intimidate another person.
Physical: pushing, pinching, etc.
Threatening: "If you tell the teacher, I'm going to ..."
Verbal: use of mean or rude words
How do we know who to talk to when faced with a difficult situation?
talk to someone you trust