Frustration
When Things Go Differently
Keeping Cool
Competition
Following The Rules
100

Name one thing that makes you frustrated.

Very good!

100

Name a time something went differently from what you thought. 

Great answer!

100

Give an example of a time you had to keep your cool.

Great example!

100

Have you ever lost in a game? How did you feel?

Disappointed, mad, angry, frustrated, sad, etc.

100

What are two classroom expectations in Classroom Guidance?

Stay safe, raise your hand, walk in line, respect self and others, be responsible, keep hands and feet to self, etc.

200

Name one way you can calm down when you are frustrated.

Deep breaths, read a book, color, focus on 1 or 2 sounds, etc.

200

How can you tell someone nicely that you were not expecting the situation that happened?

Yep, that's one thing you could say!

200

True or False: Hitting is okay when you are upset.

FALSE!

200

True or False: It is okay to lose a game.

True.

200
Tell a time you had to follow the rules but did not want to.

Good response.

300

Define "frustration." What does it mean to you?

the feeling of being upset or annoyed, especially because of inability to change or achieve something.

300

A field trip was canceled at the last minute. What is one positive thing you could say despite being disappointed?

Great optimistic response!

300

What are 3 things you can do to show self-control when you are angry?

Breathe, count, take a break, go walking, talk to someone, color, listen to music, etc.

300

True or False: You should always assume you go first in a game, or even in line.

False. 

300

True or False: It is okay to not follow the rules. It's your choice to make. 

False.

400

Finish the sentence: I feel frustrated when ____. 

Great answer!

400

What are 3 positive things you can do or say when something goes differently than you thought?

"That's okay." / "I understand." / "Maybe next time." / "I'm disappointed but I'll be okay." / "Wow, that's not what I expected." 

(Other answers are acceptable too.)

400

A friend took the last doughnut. You are so upset. How can you calm down?

Good answer. :-)

400

You lost at UNO to a friend. What's an appropriate way to handle the loss?

Good idea!
400

What is the most important rule to you?

Very good.

500

True or False: It is okay to be frustrated.

True.

500

Mom and Dad decided to take you to a different restaurant than planned. What could you say?

Good!

500

True or False: It is okay to take a break when you are having difficult feelings.

True. (If you are at school, ask for permission first so your teacher will understand what you need at that moment.)

500

What are 3 ways you can show you are a good sport?

Take turns, congratulate the winners, shake hands, help someone on the other team if they fall or get hurt, etc.
500

Give two reasons we have to follow rules.

Answers vary but may include 1) to keep ourselves safe, 2) to keep others safe, 3) to show we are responsible, 4) to make sure we have a comfortable life, etc.