THE EX FILES
RED FLAGS BUT MAKE IT FASHION
UNBOTHERED ERA
DATE YOURSELF
SOBER BUT STILL HOT
100

Your ex says: “You’ve changed.” You say:

“Yes, for the better.”

100

Someone pressures you to use—this is a

Red flag

100

Your peace is now your ___. 

Priority

100

Name one way you spoil yourself

Rest, food, music

100

Your support system is your _____. 

Power squad

200

If they text “I miss you” at 2am, that’s called

A trap

200

If they hate your boundaries, they hate your

Healing

200

What’s more attractive than chaos?

Stability

200

Saying “no” is a form of ____. 

Self-respect

200

What’s your biggest flex?

Staying sober

300

True or False: Closure is required to move on

False

300

True or False: Love should cost you your sanity

False

300

True or False: Healing is a glow-up

True

300

Finish: “I am not hard to love, I am just ___.”

Selective

300

True or False: Growth is attractive

True 

400

Name one reason you don’t go back

Peace, growth

400

What do we do to toxic people?

Block, bless, release

400

What does “I’m busy” really mean now?

Protecting my peace

400

True or False: You don’t need a relationship to be whole

True

400

Who deserves your loyalty now?

Yourself

500

Finish: “I lost you, but I found ___.”

Myself, sobriety

500

Name a red flag you now RUN from

Any honest answer

500

What’s your new standard?

Any positive answer

500

What’s your love language to yourself?

Any answer

500

What would you say to your past self?

Any kind answer