Rules
Write down values, beliefs, and skills that are important to you.
What is The First Step in Establishing Rules of the Home?
A parent's positive and sincere praise using 40 phrases that praise handout from lesson 1
What is a social reward?
Walks, mantras, morning hugs, or high five
What is an example of a family ritual?
10-15 minutes of one on one time with each child
What is My Time?
Rules, responsibilities, rituals, rewards, routines
What are the 5 Rs?
The first rule of rewarding
1. Make the reward rewarding - and fit the reward to the amount of effort spent
special outings, tv time, video game time, extra bedtime story, movies, getting a driver's license
What is a privilege?
Reduce stress and chaos, foster organization, structure, and predictability
What is Stress-Busting Routines?
Examples of this include deep breathing and meditation
What is mindfulness?
1. prevent chaos in the home
increase good behavior
build loving relationships
What can the 5Rs help a family do?
A helpful worksheet to write down rules of the home
What are Our Family Rules! SFP 3-2
Social, material, and privileges
What are 3 types of rewards?
Structured tasks at night that support readiness for the next day, responsibility, good overall hygiene and wellness
What is a bedtime routine?
Refusing to admit or acknowledge a concern. Denying there is a problem, and blaming others to deflect from one's own mistakes
What is stonewalling?
A visual representation of tasks and rules of the home, detailing when and who will complete each task.
What is a Chore Chart?
6. Do not offer a reward to stop bad behavior
What is the last rule of rewarding?
The use of a physical item to collect or exchange for rewards after good behavior
What is a token economy?
Developing an after-school plan for the place, time, and for how long, can help children be more successful in school.
What is a homework or study routine?
3 types of communication
Assertive, aggressive, passive
Name the other language all SFP handouts are available in.
Benefits of ___ are more children who are more responsible, competent, self reliant and have higher self esteem than those who do not complete ___
What are chores?
One way the IIH team or "family coaches" subtly teaches "rituals"
The closing ritual
Consistent, predictable routines, like bedtime or meal times, are crucial for building secure attachments by providing a sense of safety, predictability, and trust.
What is attachment theory?
What is Stomping Out the A.N.T.s?
1. Don’t deny there was a problem.
2. Don’t minimize the person’s hurt feelings.
3. Don’t justify your hurtful behavior.
4. Don’t become offended at their words.
5. Don’t be too prideful to apologize.
What is "What Not To Do in an apology?"