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What's the Word?
Safety First
Y'all do what now?
Tools of the Trade
50 Shades of WTF?
100
This slang term refers to group sex involving two men and one woman.
What is a devil's threesome?
100
A mutually agreed upon word or phrase that has the power to immediately stop all sexual play when said by either partner.
What is a safe word?
100
The time period in which BDSM activities take place that occurs only after consent has been given, activities have been discussed and negotiated.
What is a scene?
100
This Home Depot staple is sold by the foot and is as important during bondage as it is during sailing season.
What is rope?
100
This weekly podcast featuring Dan Savage is a good place to pick up basic knowledge about kink.
What is The Savage Lovecast?
200
The act of a woman penetrating a man anally with a strap on
What is pegging?
200
A specific BDSM activity or kink that a person hesitates about or places strict conditions on, but for which they will still give informed consent.
What is a soft limit?
200
A kink that has gone almost mainstream, this activity can be done with a bare hand, a flogger, whips, canes, and any number of household items.
What is spanking?
200
This item comes in different styles including tweezer, clover, alligator, and clothespin.
What are nipple clamps?
200
This French-born libertine writer coined the term sadism, the act of deriving pleasure from other peoples’ pain, merely by existing.
Who is Marquis de Sade?
300
This acronym refers to the teasing and torment of male genitalia with bondage or sensation play, and also refers to a type of cognitive therapy.
What is CBT. Cock and ball torture?
300
The time after a BDSM scene or play session in which the participants calm down, discuss the previous events and their personal reactions to them, and slowly come back in touch with reality. This is a necessary part of BDSM and kink.
What is aftercare?
300
A slang term for for the kink properly known as Urolagnia that might warrant buying a new umbrella (ella ella) if your partner says they're into it.
What is watersports, golden showers
300
Known as “the Cadillac of Vibrators” this Japanese made “back massager” is popular for use during forced orgasm.
What is The Hitachi Magic Wand
300
In the 2002 film Secretary, Maggie Gyllenhaal plays the titular role as a depressive cutter turned office worker who submits to her boss (played by James Spader) and asks him to become her _________. This term is commonly used to refer to BDSM players who enjoy control and power.
What is a Dominant/Master/Top?
400
The acronyms RACK and SSC stand for phrases that define kink specific best practices.
What is Risk Aware Consensual Kink and Safe, Sane, and Consensual?
400
A specific BDSM activity or kink that a person refuses to give consent for during the negotiation and preparation period before a scene takes place. This activity must not be done under any circumstances.
What is a hard limit?
400
A subjective term for types of sexual play that are considered to be pushing on the edge of the traditional S.S.C. (Safe, Sane, Consensual) creed.
What is edgeplay?
400
This tool was originally used to test neurological responses but is now widely used during sensation play
What is the Wartenberg Wheel?
400
Published in 1954 by French author Anne Desclos (using the pen name Pauline Reage), this novel is a tale of female submission that inspired obscenity trials, rocked the literary world, and has become an iconic part of BDSM culture and history.
What is The Story of O?
500
In this BDSM practice a peeled, curved piece of ginger root is inserted into a person’s anus.
What is figging?
500
A mutual agreement that within defined limits, consent will be given as read without foreknowledge of the exact actions planned. As such, it is a show of trust and understanding and usually undertaken only by partners who know each other well.
What is consensual non-consensuality?
500
This term for a man who is turned on by his wife having sex with other men comes from the peculiar mating practices of the cuckoo bird.
What is Cuckolding?
500
Originally developed by a dance instructor, this twenty-two pound masturbation device is a highly prized and powerful sex machine.
What is The Sybian?
500
Which of the following is not the name of a commonly used BDSM apparatus? A. Humbler B. St. Andrews Cross C. Grinder D. Spreader bar
What is C. Grinder?