That Gets on my nerves
When does sibling rivalry start?
When the second baby is born
What are 3 types of boundaries?
Physical, emotional, social
What are my families strength?
Love, faith, humor, time together, supportive, hardworking, caring, smart, playful
What are 4 ways to resolve conflict?
Ignore/give in, compromise/share, Take turns, insist on your way, ask for help.
What is one of your favorite memories with your sibling?
Answers vary
True/False
Siblings purposely try to get on your nerves
Both. Sometimes it is on accident and sometimes it’s on purpose
Name 3 physical boundaries to have with your sibling.
Don’t enter room without knocking/privacy
Don‘t take without asking/stealing
no hitting or kicking/harming
What are my family values?
Love, religion, hardwork, family sticks together, education, charity, money, fun, the environment, racial equality, diversity, justice
What can you so when you both want to watch TV?
Take turns or share
What are 3 things you like to do with your sibling?
Answers will vary: play video games, watch TV, go outside, read, play pretend, talk
What are siblings competing to get?
Attention, resources, control
Name 3 emotional boundaries to have with siblings.
Don’t tattletale
stop when they ask
Don’t tease
love, care, support
What are the benefits of having siblings?
forever Friend, help with parents, someone to have fun with, learning to share, someone to look up to.
What can you do when you feel like your parent likes your sibling more?
Talk to your parent
What’s one thing you wish your sibling knew about you?
Answers vary
Do parents/caregivers help or make sibling rivalry worse?
It depend. Sometimes parents can take sides. This does not help. Sometimes they can problem solve. This does help.
Name 3 social boundaries you need with siblings.
Family comes before friends/ protect
Don‘t spread rumors about your siblings/ respect
share and take turns/ be fair
What do you like about your sibling?
Answers will vary: funny, caring, adventurous, supportive
What can you do if your sibling hurts you?
Tell a parent or caregiver
What’s one thing you wish your sibling didn’t know about you?
Answers will vary
What does your sibling do to gets on your nerves?
Breaking rules/boundaries
blaming
not stopping when I ask.
leave you out
What do you do to annoy your sibling?
Answers will very. Won‘t play with them, try to boss them, won’t give them space or time to be alone or with friends, repeat, won’t share. Double Jeopardy. What type of boundary does it break.
What does your sibling like about you?
Answers will vary: we play together, I make him/her laugh, I help, I care, I do chores
What can you do when your sibling wants to spend time with you?
Have fun together. Agree to at least 15min per day
What will your relationship look like 5years from now.
Answers vary. How old will you be? Will you hang out with each other.