That Gets On My Nerves
What can you do when your sibling wants to spend time with you?
Try to have fun together for at least 15 min per day. Ask for space, if you no longer are able to play nicely
What are 3 parts of an I feel statement?
I feel (emotion) when (specific action) because (reason).
What are my families strength?
Love, faith, humor, time together, supportive, hardworking, caring, smart, playful
What are helpful ways to resolve conflict?
A. Scream at individual
B. Ignore person/not respond
C. Push/hit them
D. Insist things happened your way
E. All the above
F. None of the above
F. None of the above
What is one of your favorite memories with your sibling?
Answers vary
True/False
Siblings purposely try to get on your nerves
Both. Sometimes it is on accident and sometimes it’s on purpose
Which is the best 'I feel' statement example:
A. "You are annoying and that makes me feel frustrated"
B. "I feel frustrated when I’m interrupted because I want to finish what I’m saying."
C. "I feel like you’re trying to make me mad."
D. "I'm mad at you for not letting me talk."
B. "I feel frustrated when I’m interrupted because I want to finish what I’m saying."
What are my family values?
Love, religion, hardwork, family sticks together, education, charity, money, fun, the environment, racial equality, diversity, justice
What can you so when you both want to watch TV?
Take turns or share
What are 3 things you like to do with your sibling?
Answers will vary: play video games, watch TV, go outside, read, play pretend, talk
What does your sibling do to gets on your nerves?
Breaking rules/boundaries, blaming, not stopping when I ask, excluding you
Why is this not a helpful 'I feel' statement?
"I feel you always ruin everything for me."
→ Uses “I feel” but follows with blame and an absolute (“always”).
What are the benefits of having siblings?
forever Friend, help with parents, someone to have fun with, learning to share, someone to look up to.
What can you do when you feel like your parent likes your sibling more?
Talk to your parent
What’s one thing you wish your sibling knew about you?
Answers vary
You're sibling wants to hug you and you don't want to hug them. How can you set this boundary?
Say "I do not want a hug", "please don't touch me", or "no thank you"
You may offer an alternative if you want, like a high five or fist bump.
Fix this statement: "I feel you don’t care about me at all."
→ Assumes the other person’s intentions instead of expressing your own emotions.
I feel sad when you ignore me/leave me out/don't talk to me because our relationship is important to me/I care about spending time with you/ I want to tell you something
What do you like about your sibling?
Answers will vary: funny, caring, adventurous, supportive
What can you do if your sibling hurts you?
If its a small problem, you can ignore them, walk away or tell them to stop. If they continue or its a big problem, tell a parent or caregiver
What’s one thing you wish your sibling didn’t know about you?
Answers will vary
Why might siblings "rival" or not get along?
Sibling may want attention, resources, and or control, have developmental stages and age differences, have personality and temperament differences or feel jealous
Why are 'I feel' statements helpful?
The purpose of "I feel" statements is to express the speaker's emotions and beliefs without blaming others. They help in avoiding accusatory tones and allow for a more constructive conversation. By using "I feel" statements, individuals can communicate their feelings and suggest solutions, which can improve communication and reduce conflict.
What does your sibling like about you?
Answers will vary: we play together, I make him/her laugh, I help, I care, I do chores
What is a compromise?
An agreement or settlement of a conflict that is reached by each side giving up a little of what they want to still get some of what they want: meeting in the middle
What will your relationship look like 5years from now.
Answers vary. How old will you be? Will you hang out with each other.