DO NOT ENTER
What does the DO NOT ENTER SIGN represent in relationships?
Relationships that are unsafe or unhealthy and you should stay away.
What does the YIELD sign represent in a relationship.
Slow down and be prepared to give way.
What sign could the crosswalk represent in a relationship?
Boundaries
This traffic light color means it’s safe to move forward.
Green
What does the DETOUR sign mean in relationships?
It means you should make a temporary change in direction you are going. Try other ways to make the relationship work (move forward)
Name two warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.
disrespect / control / jealousy/ abuse/
Which words does not represent yielding in a relationship
A. Pay attention, slow down
B. Listen, Compromise
C. Retaliate, Fight
C. Retaliate, Fight
Boundaries help people feel __________ and respected
Safe
Name two signs of a green-light relationship
Trust / respect /honesty/ communication/ safety / support
Detours in relationships represent __________.
challenges or obstacles
Just like a "Do Not Enter" sign warns drivers to stay out of dangerous areas, we need to recognize when to step away from harmful relationships. Give 3 examples of dangerous behaviors in relationship that are harmful.
Physical abuse, Verbal abuse, Emotional abuse, controlling behavior, manipulation, disrespect, threats.
Yielding in a relationship means:
A) Ignoring others
B) Listening and considering feelings C) Always giving in
B. Listening and considering feelings
True or False: Boundaries are the same for everyone.
False
Your partner respects your boundaries, supports your goals, listens when you speak, and makes you feel safe being yourself.
Is this a red, green or amber light? Why
Green.
The relationship is respectful, supportive, and balanced.
A healthy response to challenges include all the following EXCEPT:
a) Avoiding the problem
b) Adapting to the situation
c) Communicating d) Finding new ways to work through difficulties
c) Communicating and adapting
You are cautioned to stay away from relationships where boundaries are not respected.
A. Explain Why
B. Give one example of not respecting boundaries in a relationship.
When someone consistently ignores or pushes past your boundaries, it’s a sign that the relationship isn’t safe or healthy.
Demanding passwords, touching you without consent, or refusing to give you space
When someone is unwilling to yield in a relationship—meaning they refuse to listen, compromise, or consider another person’s needs—the relationship can quickly become strained. Yielding isn’t about “losing”; it’s about creating space for both people to feel heard and valued. When that doesn’t happen, several problems can emerge: Explain two.
1. Communication Breaks Down
If one person always insists on being right or having things their way, conversations stop being productive. The other person may shut down, avoid talking, or feel like their voice doesn’t matter.
2. Resentment Starts to Build
When one person constantly gives in while the other never budges, the relationship becomes unbalanced. Over time, the more flexible partner may feel taken for granted, frustrated, or emotionally drained.
Name four types of boundaries and give an example.
Physical (personal space, touch) Emotional (sharing feelings, empathy) Mental (thoughts, beliefs, ideas) Time (availability, alone time) Financial (possessions, money) Sexual (intimacy comfort) Spiritual (faith, values)
When is a good time to “stop” in a relationship? Give 4 examples
Abuse (Physical, verbal, emotional, control)
Drugs, alcohol abuse
Control, manipulation, threats
Just like a detour changes your route so you still arrive safely, adapting in relationships helps you move forward without causing more harm. Give two examples of "adapting"
If arguing isn’t helping → you adapt by taking a break and talking later
If texting causes misunderstandings → you adapt by talking in person
If someone needs more space → you adapt by respecting that boundary
Explain what control looks in an unealthy relationship.
Telling the person what to wear, where they can go, who they can see/speak with, not allowing the person to make decisions for themselves.
Give an example of what yielding could look like during a disagreement.
Listening, pausing, taking turns speaking, trying to see thing from the other person's perspective.
Explain why respecting boundaries strengthens relationships
Your partner checks your phone without permission, tells you who you can talk to, or pressures you to do things you’re not comfortable with.
Is this a red, green or amber light? Why
Red light.
This shows control and disrespect. Boundaries are not respected.
Detours are sometimes necessary in relationships because the original way of doing things isn’t working. Give two reasons why people may need to make a detour in their relationships.
People grow and change
Problems come up that weren’t expected
Feelings can get hurt or misunderstood
The relationship needs a new approach to stay healthy