Size of Problem
Size of the Reaction
Solve the Problem
100

You break a pencil

Small problem

100

A classmate starts yelling at another student since he or she thinks that person cheated at a game.

Big reaction, small problem

100

You lose a game during recess

1) Wait and cool down

2) Go to another activity

3) Walk away and let it go

200

Someone walked by and accidentally pushed you. You did not fall over and did not get hurt.

Small

200

A friend shares that her parents are getting a divorce and she has been crying every day.

Big reaction, big problem

200

You come in a little late to school and when you get to your classroom no one is there. What should you do? 

Ask an adult for help - That could be a big problem. 

300

You have a family member who is very sick and is in the hospital

Big

300

Your friend says she needs some space from you this week since you two had a disagreement. You give her some space and spend time with other friends.

Medium reaction, medium problem

300

A friend is mad at you that you decided to play with another friend during recess

1) talking it out

2) Wait and cool down

400

Another student is bothering you everyday at recess. You asked them to stop. The next day they kick you and run away. 

Big Problem - Get an adult involved. 

400

A friend shares that she feels so anxious because of the pandemic that she is not able to go to sleep or focus in school. She has not told anyone but you.

Big reaction, big problem

400

Someone pushed against you while you were standing in line. You think it was on purpose. What should you do? 

Ask them to stop

Ignore it 


500

Your best friend says that they don't like your favorite movie. He says it's a movie for babies. He stops saying that when you ask him to. 

Small Problem - You might be mad at your friend, but you are not hurt or in danger

500

A friend says mean things about another classmate since this person has been making faces at her in class.

Big reaction, small problem

500

Your best friend tells you to prank another classmate who has been annoying him or her. What should you do? 

Say to your friend, "No, I'm not doing that!"