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Wise Mind "ACCEPTS"
"IMPROVE" the Moment
Self-Soothing Skills
Pros & Cons
Willing & Willful
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The "ACCEPTS" skills help distract us from from our emotional pain. Why do we sometimes need to be distracted from our pain?
Sometimes our pain is overwhelming and sometimes our pain is related to situations that we cannot change. Continuing to focus on our pain can lead to us getting stuck in certain emotions.
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How can the "IMPROVE" skills help us when we are dealing with emotional pain?
These skills can help us distract, soothe ourselves, and decrease our negative feelings.
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What are the five senses that can be used in self-soothing skills?
Touch, smell, look, taste, and hearing.
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What is a Pros & Cons list and why is it used?
A Pros & Cons list helps you figure out how a certain choice would be positive and negative for you. You create two columns and list all of the positives and negatives of a choice you might make.
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What does it mean to be willing? Give two examples.
Willing means that you make efforts to help, try something, accept things for what they are & not fight against them.
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How can "contributing" or helping other people make it easier to deal with our own problems?
Helping others allows us to take the focus of our ourselves and focus on someone else. Helping others may also lead to us having some positive emotions.
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The "E" stands for encouragement. What is an example of how you can encourage yourself when you are facing difficult feelings or situations?
--Saying positive things to yourself like, "You are strong, you can get through this". --reminding yourself that things won't always feel this bad since feelings come and go -- remembering the goals you are working towards
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What does it mean to "self-soothe"?
Using different activities, thoughts, and experiences to help yourself decrease or tolerate negative feelings.
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How can using a Pros & Cons list help you when you are feeling really upset and having unsafe thoughts?
A Pros & Cons list can help you figure out if acting on your unsafe thoughts would lead to more positive or negative outcomes in your life. It can help you to think through things and be less impulsive.
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What does it mean to be willful?
Willful means wanting to only have things your way, refusing to cooperate, fighting against reality.
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What activities can help us have "opposite emotions" if we are feeling really sad?
Examples: Exercising, helping someone, watching a funny TV show, spending time with one of your favorite friends.
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The "P" stands for "prayer". When are 2 times when you can use prayer?
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What are 3 self-soothing skills that involve "touch"?
Examples: Laying under a soft blanket, taking a cold/hot shower, playing with a stress ball, putting on lotion/cologne.
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Your friend hasn't responded to your last few messages. You are really frustrated and disappointed. Your heart starts racing, your body feels hot and you are having thoughts about doing something that will get you in trouble. Name 2 Pros and 2 Cons of this behavior.

Pros-Whatever you do might make you feel better in the short term. Cons- Feeling better may only be temporary.

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How can being "willing" help us accept what is going on in our life?
Being "willing" can help us accept that there are certain things in our lives we cannot change and we do the best we can in trying to move forward. Not allowing ourselves to get stuck in certain emotions.
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Fill in the blank: Using ____________ can help us realize that someone else has more struggles than we do and that our situation could be worse.
Comparisons
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The "I" stands for "imagery". What is imagery and how can it help you deal with difficult feelings and situations?
--Imagery is using your mind to imagine a safe place, a happy memory, hearing a family member's words. --Imagery can help distract us from the painful feelings we are having and possibly even decrease our painful feelings.
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Name 3 self-soothing skills that involve "hearing"?

Examples: -Listening to your breathing, paying attention to sounds of nature, listening to your favorite songs on your radio.

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In order to do complete a Pros & Cons list, what mind do you need to be in: emotional, rational or wise mind? How does being in that type of mind help you best in doing a Pros & Cons list?

Wise Mind. Being in Wise Mind helps you be aware of your emotions and make the best decisions that will help bring you closer to your goals.

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How can being “willful” get in the way of us dealing with our pain and moving forward?

When we are "willful", we can get stuck in certain feelings, not want to accept our life for what it is, and refusing to accept help or help ourselves.

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You got an in a fight with your parents and it made you feel angry and alone. Your feelings become overwhelming and you begin to have very negative thoughts. In order to distract yourself from these feelings, you walk into the kitchen and grab some ice cubes that you hold in your bare hands for 10 minutes. This is an example of using what ACCEPTS skill?

Sensations.

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Talk about how you used 2 of these skills in the past and how they helped you deal with difficult feelings or situation. Imagery, Meaning, Peace, Relaxation, One thing in the Moment, Vacation, Encouragement

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What are the best times to use your self-soothing skills?

When you are in emotional pain, feeling overwhelmed by your emotions, having thoughts/impulses that are unhealthy

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Talk about a time when you used a pros & list. Talk about how it helped you decide what you needed to do in your life.

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You are disappointed when you aren't allowed to have screen time even when you have had good behaviors. Give an example of how you could show "willing" behavior and an example of "willful" behavior in this situation.

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