Conflict Corner
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200

This conflict type is how things are done.

What is procedural?

200

The common meaning of a word is often found in the dictionary.

What is denotative?

200

I only listen to what is important to me and what I agree with.

What is a selective listener?

200

I play a central role in bringing people together for a common goal.

What is a leader as a conductor?

200

Gestures, facial expressions, posture, and eye contact.

What is kinesics?

400

This type of conflict involves clashing personalities.

What is interpersonal?

400

A subjective, symbolic, and interpretive meaning of a word that varies among the users.

What is connotative?

400

I listen to show empathy and build trust.

What is a people-oriented listener?

400

I work to include group members in the decision-making process by soliciting and considering their opinions and suggestions.

What is a participative leader?

400

Paralanguage: tone, pitch, rate, volume, fillers.

What is vocalics?

600

This type of conflict comes from what is being done.

What is substantive?

600

A type of language that focuses on ownership.

What is "I" language?

600

I view questions and feedback as a personal attack.

What is a defensive listener?

600

This type focuses on behaviors that contribute to group performance.

What is functional leadership?

600

Use of space: public, social, personal, and intimate zones.

What is proxemics?

800

I handle conflict with a win-at-all-costs attitude.

What is competing? 

800

A type of language that includes judgments, absolutes, and blaming.

What is "You" language?

800

I try to find something I disagree with, I'm looking for an argument.

What is sparring?

800

I foster trust, build strong relationships, & inspire.

What is an authentic leader?

800

Perception of time: punctuality, pacing, etc.

What is chronemics?

1000

I lead through conflict by using systems and rules to manage disputes. 

What is a structuralist?

1000

These negate preceding thoughts, diminishing the importance of the preceding statement.

What are "But" statements? 

1000

I focus on detailed information, facts, & analysis.

What is a content-oriented listener?

1000

I emerge, or am designated, due to the skills others do not have.

What is a leader as a technician?

1000

The types and meanings of touch.

What is Haptics?