Group Roles
This is the opposite of a bossy leader.
A helpful leader
This is one difference between friendly and hurtful teasing.
If it's friendly, the teaser will stop at red light cues, it's about something small and silly, and everyone thinks its funny
This is one example of a calming tool you can use in class
If your voice is quiet or difficult to hear, you are likely using this form of communication.
Passive
Adjusting the plan to include someone else's idea is an example of this social skill.
This person does not match or follow the plan of the group.
The detractor
This is one tool I can use if someone is teasing me in a hurtful way.
Ignore it, distract, use humor, stay away, broken record, use positive self talk, use a calming tool, use assertive communication (I statement).
This is one example of a conversation starter that matches at middle school.
Favorite subjects, teachers, hobbies
Accusations, name-calling, swearing, and blaming are all examples of this form of communication.
Aggressive
This form of communication is the most effective way to communicate when working with others.
Assertive
The cheerleader
This is one characteristic of bullying.
Repeated, meant to hurt, power difference.
True or false: It matches to bring your plushie to school with you in middle school
False
"Would you please stop hitting me?" is an example of this form of communication.
Passive
"If ___, then ___ could happen." This is an example of thinking before speaking/acting which is called this.
This person tries to help group members work out disagreements.
The mediator.
This is what I should do if I think I am being bullied.
Tell a trusted adult.
If you don't understand the directions your teacher gives, this is something you could do.
Be assertive and ask for help: "I don't understand. I need more help."
An example of an "I message" is ...
"I feel ___ when you ___."
"I need you to ___."
"I want ____."
When someone gets stuck on one idea and can't move on, it is called being this.
Rigid
This is the difference between bossy and assertive.
This is one of the four types of bullying.
Verbal (words), Physical (actions), Relational (Social), Cyber (technology)
If I don't know what matches, I can do this.
Look at what everyone else is doing or ask someone.
One assertiveness tool is ...
Correct answers include: strong voice, eye contact, tell vs ask, I messages, serious facial expression, words match non-verbal cues
The social filter checklist includes these three items.
Is it ___?
Is it ___?
Is it ___?
Helpful
Kind
Necessary