Conversations
Why is it important to act interested when talking to someone?
It shows you care about what they’re saying and helps keep the conversation going.
What does perspective taking mean?
Understanding how someone else is feeling or thinking
What does it mean to be too honest?
Saying something that’s true but might be rude or hurtful.
Name three qualities of a good friend.
Being kind, listening, including others, being honest, etc.
What does emotional regulation mean?
Managing your feelings so they don’t control your actions.
(Role Play): Your friend is talking about their favorite book, but you aren’t that interested. Show us how you can act interested.
Act out nodding, making eye contact, and asking, “What’s it about?”
(Role Play): Your friend seems upset after losing a game. Show how you can take their perspective.
“That was a tough game. I get why you’re frustrated.”
(Role Play): Your friend got a new haircut, but you don’t like it. Show how to be honest without being rude.
“It’s different! Do you like it?”
(Role Play): Your friend is upset because you forgot their birthday. Show a way to apologize and make it right.
“I’m really sorry. I didn’t mean to forget. Can I make it up to you?”
(Role Play): You feel yourself getting angry because a friend took your seat. Show a way to calm down before reacting.
Taking deep breaths, counting to 10, or walking away.
What happens when someone goes off-topic in a conversation? How might their conversation partner feel?
It can confuse others and make them lose interest.
What does reading the room mean?
Noticing what’s happening around you to know how to act.
Why should we think some thoughts instead of say them?
Some thoughts should stay in your head because they might be rude or unnecessary
What is the best way to self-advocate in a friendship?
Speaking up when something bothers you and expressing your needs respectfully.
Why is managing frustration important in social situations?
So you don’t overreact, hurt someone’s feelings, or make a situation worse.
(Role Play): A classmate asks, “What did you do over the weekend?” Show us a good and bad way to stay on topic.
Good: “I went to the park with my family.” Bad: “Did you know penguins can’t fly?”
You walk into a room where everyone is quiet and serious. What do you do?
Look around, stay quiet, wait before speaking
(Role Play): Your classmate says something that annoys you. Show an example of a think-it thought and a say-it response.
What should you do if a friend is being unkind or unfair to you?
Talk to them about it, set boundaries, or take a break from the friendship.
(Role Play): You lose a game and feel really upset. Show a way to handle it appropriately.
Act out taking a deep breath and saying, “Good game.”
How can strong conversation skills help you in different areas of life, like school, making friends, or even future jobs?
Good conversation skills help you build friendships, work well in groups, ask for help when needed, and make a good impression on teachers or future employers.
What is sarcasm, and how can you tell when someone is using it?
Sarcasm is when someone says the opposite of what they mean in a joking or teasing way. You can tell by their tone, facial expression, or situation
What is setting boundaries, and why is it important?
Setting boundaries means telling people what you’re comfortable with. It helps you feel safe and respected.
(Role Play): A friend always interrupts you and doesn’t let you talk. Show how you could stand up for yourself.
“I’d like a turn to talk, too.”
What are some ways to handle social stress when you feel overwhelmed or anxious in a group setting?
You can take deep breaths, use positive self-talk, take a short break, focus on listening instead of worrying, or remind yourself that mistakes are okay.